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| Author: | marcotomas [ Sun Sep 20, 2009 9:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Losing momentum.. |
I've talked to this girl a couple times during the week, but we just couldn't meet up this weekend; schedules didn't work out. Then we chatted online and I was unusually boring and out of character. I still am really into her and want to ask her out, but I feel like all momentum is lost and her interest may be dwindling. Any advice on how to rebuild any fading attraction? Perhaps some exciting "spontaneous" date ideas? |
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| Author: | pillow_fight [ Tue Sep 22, 2009 4:00 am ] |
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A good spontaneous date I did with girls who live near by is to explore the neighborhood at night. I would be online bored at night and see them, tell them "you're as bored as me blah blah, meet me here in your pyjamas". I found a swingset near where I live, it's close to some balconies on a building that you can take the stairs to access, it's trespassing but it's fun even when you get caught. Do some push pull online, tell some dhv stories (if you don't have any than you need to go out and have a good time at a crazy party or something fun), build attraction is really it. You probably have comfort if you were being boring in your convos. |
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| Author: | Exerio [ Tue Sep 22, 2009 8:33 am ] |
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Heya, I usually encounter situations like this very strict, but this is also what works for me. I'll give you an example: I was out with a girl where she was in a very negative mood, complaining about bullshit really. Thus, I decided to completely ignore her the next time I met her. Now, this made her mad. Really mad. Not a big deal though. I just hit her up on facebook and said: I realised that I missed talking to you today. I was outside taking a smoke alone without any funny interactions that we usually have. This made her light up again, and attraction was on once again. The example shows the following: - If she bores you, punish her. Why waste time on someone boring you? - After this you don't make any excuses, you just act. Give her a complement. This sparks her attraction as you appear to be interested, but then you suddenly shut her down. This really messes with her head, because why would a guy who appeared interested suddenly become so cold? - Exerio |
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