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| Author: | McNare [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 9:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 1 STEP FORWARD, 2 STEPS BACK! HELP ME! |
so im going to make this as short as possible. Anyways met this girl at the pool in the afternoon...ran some game on her, got her digits, and we were fucking by that night. But here is the catch...SHE HAS READ THE GAME, AND MYSTERY METHOD!! So she knows the tricks of the trade. Anyways...that's not much of the problem. HERE'S THE PROBLEM:::the next night we ended up in different places at different parties, but we were texting each other wanting to meet up before the night was done (i.e. prob get laid again) ...BUT while i was at this other party...i got TOO fucked up, TOO wasted. Anyways. my friend drives me over there cause i convinced him to do so, and she was just totally turned off. She went home, i went home... AND THATS NOT THE WORST PART So i drunk dial her, saying sorry and basically lowering myself in her eyes. It was a pitiful mess. SO ANYWAYS, This is a girl that i GENUINELY like and now i dont know where to go from here?! HELP ME.!!!?? This is what I have done so far since that night...Txt her in the morning trying to just chill with her, not really mentioning the night prior...i got no response all day. So today (monday) i text her up with a lil neg, and backhanded compliment...she responds... but all it says , "u know your game well, but u fail at cat-string theory"...thinking she's just being funny I write some sarcastic txt back being funny too (nothing bad dont worry) ...and then nothing! So a lil later i txt her again, saying something along the lines of ... "Ok u want cat string..how about this...if we HAPPEN to see each other again, great. If we don't ...then w/e. We can just wing it and see how it goes and keep it chill" ...to that she responds..."U need to read cat-string theory again bc u are epically failing"...so i write something back (w/e by this point it doesnt matter) SO WHAT I AM ASKING! WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE!? This is a girl that I genuinely could see my self liking...but now i need to DHV or how do I get her back to lookin up to me. IDK IDK IDK...Help me out. THANKS IN ADVANCED |
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| Author: | Pagey [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:48 pm ] |
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did you read the part about when Style is trying to get with Courtney Love's guitarist? Am I crazy or is that a magical coincidence there? |
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| Author: | Storyteller [ Wed Sep 16, 2009 11:11 pm ] |
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Ok. You gotta quit with the texting. You're contacting her frequently in a very non-personal way, and it's making your name on her text inbox seem like too common of a thing. Plus, its the easy way that every other AFC contacts her. Remember the main rule of sarging: Make yourself different than every other guy in the room. You need to wait a few days and call or put yourself in the same room as her and then completely ignore her. You already closed this girl, which makes it much much easier to get there again. It sounds like she's playing you right now. Think about it. Negging you about not playing cat string theory correctly, and then cat stringing you along by not answering certain texts of yours. You can't run traditional game on this girl since she knows the call UNLESS you make it so blatantly obvious that it's what you're doing. You could really have fun with it if she's as playful as she seems. Tell her play by play what you're doing when you start running game on her next time maybe. Point out every neg you give, then tell her you're going to turn your back on her after giving her an object of yours, so that'll she stay there and not leave, while you go flirt with other girls. Be over the top with it...it'll create a stronger connection between the two of you. However, I think the real answer to this is to lose the game altogether and be your honest self. Specifically if you think it could lead to some form of actual relationship. It might take a bit of a time investment, but showing her that you're willing to not work game on her, even though you have the tools and the knowledge, might prove exactly what this female wants to see from you: an honest man whom she trusts. Just an idea. Good luck bro. And happy sarging gentlemen. |
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