PUA Forum :: Warming a girl up on messenger..

Hi guys!

Ok the story goes like this: last spring i met this girl while pulling daygame and took her number. We saw once but i couldnt pull it far (no kissing etc). Anyways she has engaged me on messenger from time to time but we havent talked for a couple of months now.

Today this girl started chattin me up on messenger and put her webcam on. She was showing off her sexy dresses on cam "what do you think looks better on me?". She also showed off her panties (just with her hands)... AND told me at some point the she is horny

I kinda took it as a joke since i didn't wanna pursue her or anything but we were joking about me coming to fuck her.

When i quit messenger i decided to call her. I just asked what she's doing and told that i could help her with her "problem" (she being horny). She just laughed and told no thanks

Anyways i figured out that the game might still be on. She engaged me and started showing off her body etc. and as i called her it wasn't too serious...
Im just wondering that since its kinda probable we will talk again in messenger that what should i say? How will i bring sex back as the subject and close the deal? I have very little experience on this... Often the conversation just becomes dull and shit aint interesting anymore.

So, how would you guys deal with this? Warm her up online w/ bringing sex back as the subject or maybe something else?

Author:	tom3208 [ Sat Sep 05, 2009 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Warming a girl up on messenger..
Hi guys! Ok the story goes like this: last spring i met this girl while pulling daygame and took her number. We saw once but i couldnt pull it far (no kissing etc). Anyways she has engaged me on messenger from time to time but we havent talked for a couple of months now. Today this girl started chattin me up on messenger and put her webcam on. She was showing off her sexy dresses on cam "what do you think looks better on me?". She also showed off her panties (just with her hands)... AND told me at some point the she is horny I kinda took it as a joke since i didn't wanna pursue her or anything but we were joking about me coming to fuck her. When i quit messenger i decided to call her. I just asked what she's doing and told that i could help her with her "problem" (she being horny). She just laughed and told no thanks Anyways i figured out that the game might still be on. She engaged me and started showing off her body etc. and as i called her it wasn't too serious... Im just wondering that since its kinda probable we will talk again in messenger that what should i say? How will i bring sex back as the subject and close the deal? I have very little experience on this... Often the conversation just becomes dull and shit aint interesting anymore. So, how would you guys deal with this? Warm her up online w/ bringing sex back as the subject or maybe something else?

Author:	tret [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:32 pm ]
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i dont know bro but i hope some1 answers this!!!!!!1

Author:	North [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:45 pm ]
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Quote: Hi guys! Ok the story goes like this: last spring i met this girl while pulling daygame and took her number. We saw once but i couldnt pull it far (no kissing etc). Anyways she has engaged me on messenger from time to time but we havent talked for a couple of months now. Today this girl started chattin me up on messenger and put her webcam on. She was showing off her sexy dresses on cam "what do you think looks better on me?". She also showed off her panties (just with her hands)... AND told me at some point the she is horny I kinda took it as a joke since i didn't wanna pursue her or anything but we were joking about me coming to fuck her. When i quit messenger i decided to call her. I just asked what she's doing and told that i could help her with her "problem" (she being horny). She just laughed and told no thanks Anyways i figured out that the game might still be on. She engaged me and started showing off her body etc. and as i called her it wasn't too serious... Im just wondering that since its kinda probable we will talk again in messenger that what should i say? How will i bring sex back as the subject and close the deal? I have very little experience on this... Often the conversation just becomes dull and shit aint interesting anymore. So, how would you guys deal with this? Warm her up online w/ bringing sex back as the subject or maybe something else? I'm REALLY NOT a specialist in messaging/texting game, but it usually is a good idea in the beggining/mid game to keep expressing your personality through what you type in these short messages (Same kind of sense of humor, recalling "your" jokes, etc.). That's how it works best with me. Make her remember your last few meetings in person whenever she communicates with you, it helps to reinforce any connection with her in the long run. In your case, however, it's possible you've probably advanced further ahead already.

Author:	tom3208 [ Sun Sep 06, 2009 2:57 pm ]
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Yeah well now that ive had a day to think about this im just waiting to see her on messenger again. Ill probably pull out the topic of sex back to the table (specifically as i cavemanned with the call).. Ill first talk about it as a joke but still continue talking about sex.. dunno ill just try to adjust myself to the situation. At least if SHE brings the topic of sex back up i will try to keep it that way. It was much more interesting to talk about her picking me up for sex than to talk about a party she was going later that evening or something... I just have the mindset that if i talk more lively about sex with her she will eventually start thinking about having sex with me (also offline) and make her more interested in hooking up... Im also wondering that should i make this a play of cat & mouse her being the one to pursue me? I know this could make her more attracted to me. But im just wondering how this can be achieved since i already called her and was pretty straight about coming to have sex? Or should i just keep my current course and just clear with my intentions (no cat&mouse play)?

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