I'm at a nightclub which has stage dancers accompanying the live music, and one of the dancers who is not on stage SPAM is walking nearby. I flash a big smile and she smiles back, and then comes over, brushes her hand along my shoulder, says "Hi there," and keeps walking. A couple minutes later I go up to her on the dance floor, put my hand on her back, and say "let's dance," and I take her hand and we start to dance. Meanwhile we exchange a few words while dancing, she asks who I came with and I point to my group of both girls and guys. She asks if any of the girls I came with will be mad that I am with her and I say, "eh, maybe, who cares." After some more dancing and a bit of talking I try to kiss her, mainly just to keep the dynamic even if I think there's a good chance of rejection. She backs off quickly, but with a big grin.
I bring her back to my table and we chat for a bit. She tells me about herself, and asks what I do, where I live, and where I'm from. Because the club is loud and I'm not sure about her english abilities (I'm in a foreign country) I try not to use too many jokes and just tell her specifically where I live/am from/what I do. She asks for my #, we exchange, and as I leave she sends me a text ":)" to which I don't reply.
The next day, I just send her a text saying "I want you." She replies, "Afternoon, how was your day?" I reply with "Come to my bed
" Hours later, she replies "I'm sorry i'm not the girl u think I am. I maybe work in a disco bar but i'm not a ho. Hope u understand. I can be a good friend to u if u want. Be safe handsome. "I think I have to stop acting like a pig who only thinks about sex for a second, but without apologizing for my actions, so I send "Hey I can come across a little aggressively when I'm being playful haha. We should talk more and get together for drinks or a snack and can get to know each other. I'll tone myself down I promise," to which I receive a "Ok that would be fine."
I'm not sure what to think or how to move forward, or even which of my texts were flawed and what the flaws were. The reason I didn't call is because girls in this country often can't pick up since they work such long hours and if they do pick up the language barrier can make it difficult to communicate ideas. She seemed pretty excited when I met her, but I think I scared her a bit w/my texts. Advice?