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Author:	Diaries [ Mon Aug 10, 2009 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:	After the Close; strange response - need input/help.
Ok guys, just as a quick background, I have been working on the PUA methodology for just under 3 weeks, so I'm still learning and I need some help. I met this girl last Saturday and everything was working great. Evolution phase shift to kiss close to she came back to my place. No F-Close, just makeout in my room in bed (I did a poor job of destroying last minute resistance; I'm learning!). Part of the reason was that two guys were crashing at my place and were in the living room (I have a one bedroom apartment). One of them broke a glass and she and I joked about it. Anyways, things were great with the two of us; we eventually fall asleep and we wake up at like 5:30 AM. She lives out of state and comes in town once a month to help out with her family so we had already kind of playfully talked about hanging out in a month when she came back. Once we woke up, she said she HAD to get back to her mom's, so I basically walked her down to her car, and forgetting my cell phone I said, "Oh, shit, do you have any paper for you to write your number on for me?" She scrounged and found something and complied, I tore it in half, wrote my number down and gave it to her, kiss goodbye and that was it. Ok, so next day I sent her this text: "It's Diaries; had fun yesterday! Uh, and today! Upon letting dog out this morning I noticed one of my glasses had indeed smashed on my downstairs neighbors' patio. What's your last name? (Mine's xxx)" So that was Sunday at around noon, and I haven't heard back. I have no idea what her story is other than the fact that a mutual friend of her and mine said that he was shocked I was able to close her to my bedroom - he has seen other guys try and fail before, so I know I was doing something right, at least. So: what is the next step, is the big question? Please help! Thanks dudes!

Author:	Conker [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 4:03 am ]
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At the moment I have no magic tips for getting a girl to respond from nowhere - if there happens to be something special going on or something for me to work with between us, for that specific girl, then I can, but generally, the fall back for me is - just don't contact for ages. Then when we meet up again or have some other reason to get in contact, the girl ends up going "so sorry I never got back to you!" and she's all friendly and it starts up again. It's kinda lame in a way, because you could lose her that way, but on the other hand I completely avoided coming off AFC by sending multiple messages in an attempt to get her to respond, which would have been an instant fail. So it's better than that I have a couple of difficult to deal with girls I'm currently in contact with, and this approach generally works. Maybe she has some kinda issue like them, and just doesn't respond cause she feels too shy/scared...

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