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| Author: | wazawak [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Study Buddy Game? |
I'm trying to establish attraction with this girl. I've known her for some time, but she's always seemed pretty uninterested and is EXTREMELY intimidating and standoffish. I've recently won a great coup by getting her to agree to work with me studying for an exam she has coming up. It's actually a tutor-student relationship, I make $20/hr for helping her out. This is good, as at least it guarantees time for interactions with her. The trouble is, she remains uninterested and standoffish. She's polite but I can tell she doesn't really want to spend time with me. It's a business relationship. I try to be playful, sociable, etc but she tolerates me at best. This girl is smoking, smoking hot, and the queen bee of all her social circles. I don't know anybody who doesn't bow down to her. I'd like to think of some ways I can worm my way into her heart. I always try to dress sharp, come in with a laid back, relaxed vibe, and I try to be on top of my shit academically so I can be of service to my client. Do you guys have any further thoughts or insights? |
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| Author: | Tim Pierce [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 8:57 am ] |
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If you and her have already have an established business relationship and you can sense her giving you a vibe of disinterest then I would just recommend befriending her and looking into the quality of her friends. It would take a lot of work that might not pay off at all to try to get her interested. Think in a mentality of abundance. |
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| Author: | wazawak [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 6:29 pm ] |
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I fully intend to befriend her and yes, she has smoking hot friends. That said, I'd also like a few tools I could use to try and maximize the attraction I can build with her. I know it stinks and I feel the scathing remarks coming, but I REALLY want this girl. It will be a great point of pride for me if I can win her. When I'm exhausted in the morning and have to go to work, I look at a picture of this girl and remember why I want to make a lot of money. When I'm lazy in the afternoon and don't want to hit the gym, I look at a picture of this girl and remember why I want a strong and attractive body. When I'm at the bar or the club and I don't want to approach a set or I don't want to escalate with a girl, I look at a picture of this girl (sneakily) and remember who I'm practicing for. |
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| Author: | lomac [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:28 pm ] |
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serious case of oneitis here. You wont be able to attract her if you're as obsessed with her as you come accross. You carry her picture around with you? If she's only being polite back to you and you know she ain't attracted to you then back off a bit. I think she knows you like her. Make sure you dont blatently hit on her cos if you are one-on-one tutoring her and she isnt in love with you then she'll just get totally freaked out. |
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| Author: | alamo [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 2:14 am ] |
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Quote: I fully intend to befriend her and yes, she has smoking hot friends. That said, I'd also like a few tools I could use to try and maximize the attraction I can build with her.
Do all that, but do it for yourself.
I know it stinks and I feel the scathing remarks coming, but I REALLY want this girl. It will be a great point of pride for me if I can win her. When I'm exhausted in the morning and have to go to work, I look at a picture of this girl and remember why I want to make a lot of money. When I'm lazy in the afternoon and don't want to hit the gym, I look at a picture of this girl and remember why I want a strong and attractive body. When I'm at the bar or the club and I don't want to approach a set or I don't want to escalate with a girl, I look at a picture of this girl (sneakily) and remember who I'm practicing for. |
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| Author: | Tim Pierce [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 6:23 am ] |
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Yea man. You are settling in and the oneitis is growing. It is funny that you mentioned this because I recently wrote an extensive blog post on this for my new page. Visit my link and if you have any questions feel free to email man. Good luck, Tim Pierce |
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| Author: | Capps [ Fri Jul 31, 2009 3:42 am ] |
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Well if she has smokikn hot friends then try n get some time where u, her and her friends all hang out together. If you don't pay any attention to her, and win her friends over, it will go along way to makmin her jealous. I think that you have a very one dimensional relationship with this girl, in that you only hang out when your studying. By doing other things, she will see you in a different setting, where you can really shine. |
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