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Author:  hurley509 [ Sat Jul 25, 2009 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  tryna orchestrate a COUGAR COMEBACK... w/Phone call.. HELP!

hey guys

About 2 months ago, met this girl and had a SNL.. we had been speakin a little since, and for the insuing couple of weeks were talking of meeting up. about 5 weeks ago, she informs me that she is seing someone... however wants to stay friends. (although we hadnt seen eachother in person since) she was deleting my facebook comments for a spell there, however i stuck in.. just making funny remarks about it... and before long i start reading things on her facebook status that make it sound as if she had been f**ed round by this other guy. and then, miraculously... my comments are left on the page... she even starts replying to them. i think, cool..., might be able to work something from here... now, i sent her a sms saying "hey aunty -----, I owe you $50" she replied "yes u do owe me 50 bucks correct"... then i wrote "when are hyou in my kneck of the woods next? we could catch up and correct the debt..." .... there was no reply, so i wrote the next day "a little apprehensive to reply hey ____ is that because u feel if we met you would be in iminant danger of being ravished?:".... to which she is still yet to reply, however the fact that she hasnt deleted me off facebook or told me to fuck off makes me feel as if im still in her "maybe" pile... seing as she had left some small sexual inneundo on my facebook only a few weeks ago.. whilst, deleting what she said almost as if to keep it all secret

was thinkin about calling her late this afternoon, and like startin a hell random convo with her and trying to orchestrate the meet up, i have a few things in my mind i wanna flip and yeh... op[inions would be good

im thinkin of callin her randomly, round 4.30.. and basicly speaking to her as if we'd been speaking the whole time... i was thinking of sayin that i had been abseiling today, and that i was going to rap at the tribute concert tonight... and then see what shes doing,.. im actually looking forwqard to any "why are u calling?" who the hell r u? kind of shit tests if they are to come. the pretense 0of the meet up, will be paying her back,.. and what i shall call "unfinnished business"... if she yammers on about a guy shes seeing il go "ok. but that can change at any point so... how about u call me when u want to feel 22 again?"... lol, basicly, i want to feel out the vibe properly and SMS aint gonna do it, and im actually becomming skeptical as to whether most people even read there SMS's these days from the way my mates are as well... if you have any ideas be sure to throw them at me.

Author:  hurley509 [ Sat Jul 25, 2009 1:51 am ]
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any tricks i should be aware of?

Author:  Buccaneer [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 9:56 am ]
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hey man,

just a few tips:

Do not make age comments!!!

Sounds like me that all the calling and texting is coming off too needy. I wouldnt call either.

Timing is everything. Just freeze her out for a while and then reinitiate contact through facebook.

good luck!

Bucc

Author:  lomac [ Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:38 pm ]
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ye don't call her. You're planning this all out for a girl who may or may not have a boyfriend. It seems to me like shes not sure if shes single or not. leaving comments and then deleting them is a sign that shes not 100% finished with her bf.

and you txting and calling her might be pissing her off or at least confusing her. i'd leave her alone and forget about her for a while. She'll get in contact if she wants you. Don't keep calling her.

Author:  Tim Pierce [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 6:32 am ]
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Freeze her out for a week.
You will see her try to gain the attention back and then it is your chance to steal the frame again.

Your neediness on the phone let her control the frame after she said she wanted to remain friends.

She might have decided this because you came off too needy.

Do not worry though. You can still have her. First things first, back off quite a bit. Go out, meet women, go on more dates. You will notice that the more you become more involved with other women, the more this one in particular will desire you.

Hope it helps,

Tim Pierce

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