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Author:  MysteryDisciple [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Weird thing when girl was asking me out - Your thoughts?
Hey, so I'll give you a little background: I was out on sat night with a friend of mine (platonic chick) and she introduces me to this girl that I could tell was into me. She was hanging around with this guy (off and on) that my friend knew as well. Couldn't tell if they were serious, or friends or whatever.


We talked about what we do for a living and I'm pretty familiar with her line of work, she said I should look at her website and said something along the lines of "you should take my number and I'll text it to you" - which I played it cool and ignored.

A few minutes later I said something fairly DHV when talking to both her and my friend - AND WHAM - she was like " Give me your number!" - which I did, and she instantly texted me her web site.

Then yesterday she texted me and asked if I would go to a meeting at the mall (where she works her day job)...

I know about her side industry and that they're very pushy, "sell to your friends and family" type people - but at the same time I'm sure she digs me.

So I replied that I have dinner plans that night. (and "are you trying to sell me something ;-)" - with the ;-) to let her know I wasn't being too serious and kinda flirting, like she was selling herself to me.)

She texted back would some other time that day work? Or the next day?

So I said I'm busy business wise and can't get involved in selling this program's stuff right now, "but thanks for the heads up!"

She said "no prob"

The options are:

1 - She just wants me to get involved in selling shit

2- She likes me and just used a lame excuse to try to see me (almost as bad as "can we get together and I can talk to you a bit about Jesus?")

3 - She likes me, and wouldn't mind making some money too - This is the one I'm guessing

If she had thought harder - she could have just asked if I wanted to meet for coffee to give her some website pointers (as I own several.)

Just wondering you guys' thoughts on this?
Author:  gamer_nl [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 7:34 pm ]
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What's for sure is that you have displayed high value, based on reading your post. Well done! It's difficult to say what the girls intention is with you, but I would simply hint at the idea that you meet up with her in evening and 'discuss' business with a cup of coffee/beer. Keep it a bit playful, she will get the hint and you will know what she wants (you will at least know if she only wants you for this selling shit or just to hang out). I think you have displayed enough value. Get together and see where it leads.
Author:  MysteryDisciple [ Fri Jul 17, 2009 2:30 am ]
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Thanks for your kudos, gamer_nl - The only thing about asking her for coffee is that it sets it back in her "pitching" business frame, I want to keep any future interactions with her in the frame of "me and you - sex", if you know what I mean by that. I want to avoid her frame altogether!
Author:  Froot Loop [ Fri Jul 17, 2009 8:29 am ]
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This is the first shit that popped into my head, and keep in mind I'm green as hell in PU. Seems like a good idea to me, but it might be bullshit, so take it with a grain of salt. Here's my thought if you want to keep it in the "you-me-sex" realm:

Find a female masseuse that is willing to give you and a friend lessons on relaxation massage. Set up the coffee meeting with the HB fairly well in advance. Set your massage lesson at the same time. On very short notice, maybe even same day of, call the HB and tell her something like, "Oh shit, I accidentally scheduled our coffee meeting at the same time as this massage lesson I am getting. But you know what, my friend [insert female name] just called me to back out. I can't get a refund for the lesson because of the cancellation policy. Would you be a stud and fill in? I need a neck and shoulders to learn on. We can talk about X during."

Now, you can either set boundaries of only neck and shoulders with the masseuse before hand to stick to what you said.....or you can specifically imply that you want to learn more than that. This way, the masseuse will be accelerating the kino for you, and the HB will feel some social pressure to just go along with it. Even if she is thinking business, this should be enough to put her brain right into her pants. Could come up aces....but then again I'm an rAFC, so what do I know :wink:
Author:  gamer_nl [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:57 pm ]
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Just get out with her, if still possible. Be willing to subtly neglect her business talk and try to bombard her with routines to see how she responds. You will probably have to reframe and redirect a lot of the interaction. Just do it. You can perfectly use canned material here. Have as much as possible with you. Just get out and see where you can get with her. Probably, she will take notice of your reframing attempts. Keep it playful here, involve some of her business stuff and cooporate a little bit with her, as long as the frame is yours. Then, from time to time, neglect her stuff and stack again with routines. She will take the hint. You will know where you stand with her. If nothing, see it as practice. As long as it is playful, she will be fine with it.
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