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She wants a day 2, as do I, but she's super busy.
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Author:  Therm [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  She wants a day 2, as do I, but she's super busy.

So 2 weeks ago I KClose this HB9 at a bar, we had more in common than I thought was possible. For every story each of us had, each one of us had something similar that could relate to that story. There was a huge connection once opened, the kino escalation went perfectly, there was not a single error on my part. I was setting up time bridges, saw her again last weekend. It was completely natural. She's gone for this weekend to see friends. She's been really busy at work and perhaps that's stressing her out. She indicates wanting to do something, however things are hectic as could be.

I'm thinking perhaps initiated conversation all the time I should back off and let her chase me now. Thought it's hard when you connect with someone like that. I keep telling myself it's no big deal be patient, but it's messing with me, I'm losing interest in opening girls and closing them as the only one I want to talk to is the busy girl.

Author:  bombayboy [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:47 pm ]
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hey bro
Needy is uncool, so never give that message.
Try and be in control of the situation, in this moment she is, shes calling the shots.
Make ur life seem interesting and like a lots going on, so she doesnt think that by her being busy, its keeping your life on hold.

One thing i learnt is, if a girl really wants to see you, she will, no matter how busy.
Back off and try doing some other girls, do youy have her on fb or myspace?
Show her ur getting on with ur life and shell pop in.

Author:  strimpboi [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She wants a day 2, as do I, but she's super busy.

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So 2 weeks ago I KClose this HB9 at a bar, we had more in common than I thought was possible. For every story each of us had, each one of us had something similar that could relate to that story. There was a huge connection once opened, the kino escalation went perfectly, there was not a single error on my part. I was setting up time bridges, saw her again last weekend. It was completely natural. She's gone for this weekend to see friends. She's been really busy at work and perhaps that's stressing her out. She indicates wanting to do something, however things are hectic as could be.

I'm thinking perhaps initiated conversation all the time I should back off and let her chase me now. Thought it's hard when you connect with someone like that. I keep telling myself it's no big deal be patient, but it's messing with me, I'm losing interest in opening girls and closing them as the only one I want to talk to is the busy girl.
See how well being busy/unavailable works for building attraction?

Author:  Therm [ Fri Jul 17, 2009 4:03 pm ]
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I have a tendency to over analyze everything. I have been keeping myself busy and she knows it, she knows that I'm "the life of the party" I get crazy IOIs still that she is interested. I backed off and she comes and shoots me a text yesterday as soon as I get out of work. Meaning she paid attention to my work schedule, was waiting until I got out, throws compliments my way, etc. Said a few things to her, killed the conversation as I was heading to the gym. Got in the plans for my busy weekend. I keep busy, but I want to get that day 2 in. In the mean time I have a huge group of people heading out this weekend and will be teaching a brief workshop prior to going out.

I agree with the whole don't be needy thing and I haven't been at all. I've conveyed to her that it's no big deal that she's busy, and she even thanked me for being patient. It's driving me nuts however even if I'm going out 3 times a week and keeping busy.

Author:  bombayboy [ Sat Jul 18, 2009 12:00 am ]
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No, thats understandable your human.
But Again dont even GIVE the impression your needy.
Its how she says "thanks for being patient" shes trying to be in control, maybe not on purpose but its a woman thing.
Make sure ur in control and u call the shots.
Tell her ull give her a shout next week or so, shell have to keep that busy and keep quiet till then. Itll keep the tension built and u can hopefully close in then.

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