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| Author: | Divinorum [ Fri Jul 10, 2009 8:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | LMR-too early or just right?? |
I met this HB 7.5 the last two weeks of my senior year and we connected really easily talking about art and artsy things(I already had attraction from her). The last day of school I saw her again and invited her to the Pasadena street chalk festival since she was into arts she was pretty excited. At the street festival we had a lotta fun and I was running pretty solid game with lots of kino. I also built comfort which was easy cause we have a lot in common, shes the artsy/hippie/indie type of person which also describes me. I decided to try a bit of direct game with her so i said confidently Me:"you know your a pretty cool chick, I would probably hang out with you even if I wasnt trying to get with you" She:(laughs) "what??your trying to get with me?" Me:"Yeah Im gonna be straight forward with you, your my type of girl. Give me a little more time and Ill be hooking up with you i guarantee you that." She:(laughs) ok. Then on the way to my car i tried to put a flower in her hair which she loved cause it was pretty hippyish, i struggled to put in her hair but when i did I went in for the kiss which transitioned smoothly and we ended up making out for 20 seconds or so and then I told her "i told you I was gonna hook up with you!" and then she laughed and enjoyed it. The next time I invited her over to my house because my parents werent home and we smoked a bowl or two and i showed her my artwork which she loved and then I proceeded to draw her on my bed. I maintained very strong eye contact with her while drawing and then soon i noticed that she was triangle gazing me. I always read about the triangle gaze but never really encountered it consciously so actually being able to see and understand it just blew my mind!!!Then the triangle gaze got more intense and i guess I created some serious sexual tension and then I went for the kiss. Things got passionate and one thing led to another and i was soon fingering her and she was moaning and I was on the right track but after a while I decided to ask her "what do you think about sex" and she responded in a moaning manner "its too early for us" so I decide to be respectful and not push it any further because I didnt want her to have buyer's remorse and we just made out a bit more and we stopped and cuddled a bit then went to the park and hung out and drew some more. So was I right by being respectful and not further physically escalating or should I have just ignored her verbally and stopped only if she physically stopped me? Well some things I took into consideration is that shes 16 years old(Im 18 ) and although shes not a virgin she is relatively young and hasnt had too much sex. Also ive only known her for a month and this was our second time hanging out together. I spent some time with her yesterday and things werent awkward at all which is good which means I didnt push it too far. So what are some things I could have done differently or was my approach right?? Divinorum. |
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| Author: | Rosewood [ Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:42 pm ] |
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Divinorum (haha, salvia...), Personally I think that would you did was right. She is only 16 years old (i had a similar experience with a 16 year old a little younger than me). You already got this girl, you have made out with her twice and even fingered her! Not to mention, it sounds like you two really like eachother, personally, I think you sound a little smitten. A lot of people come here for just sex advice, personally, I use PUA skills to try and cultivate a relationship because that is just who I am. You two sound like your having a lot of fun together and I don't think you should ruin it by rushing or forcing sex. If you have already fingered her, sex is definitely not far away, just let it come naturally. Good work my brotha! ~Rosewood |
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