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| Author: | drunk247 [ Fri Jun 26, 2009 7:52 pm ] |
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So I need advice on two parts...... How did I do dodging her shit test and since she obviously lied about having to do something else how do I change that to something positive and still ge tthe date cuz its obvious that she wants to go. Me:Hola Lady:hola Me:whats up? Lady: not much, getting caught up on email what's happening with you? me :I have been busy with work and trying to make some time for salsa nights Lady: sweet Me:nice, when is the last time you thought of learning salsa? Lady: hmm they had a free ballroom night nearby maybe a few weeks ago Me: oh cool, what is the name of the place? Lady:I think someone was sponsoring it at a hotel :so probably in their function hall Me:thats cool, iv started salsa just as a new thing to look into doing...seemed really fun Me:in a scale 1-10 how adventures you say you are? Lady: I think 8-9 Me: thats defenly pretty high, I am going to Ryles club tonight for some salsa dancing, are you up for an adventure? Lady: (Shit test) I'm seeing off my friend tonight before she flies out for vacation--it does sound fantastic but I have plans haha Lady: you definitely have to let me know how it is Me: (dodge) with my adventures it is a bit like vegas, what happens in my adventures stays betwee the people at my adventures Lady:ahh so you won't describe it to me? let me know what kind of dress I would need to go? Me:you would wear the one you look best in, just make sure you do not look better then me Lady:ahh fair enough Now how do I bring up her going salsa with me again? |
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| Author: | jmm [ Sat Jun 27, 2009 8:57 pm ] |
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I am novice myself, but your dodge seems pretty good. A bit of humor and mystery. Depending on how confident I am feeling at the moment, I will sometimes play into their dodge. Her: "I have to see my friend to the airport" Me: "Oh, where is your friend going?" Her: "uh... Mexico" Me: "Interesting, my friend Cindy is going to Cancun tonight as well. It's a shame cause she was my original Salsa partner, but she said I was too good at dancing so she wanted to get professional lessons in Mexico." Her: "Blah blah blah" Me: change topic, or if she seems to be interested now maybe fake having to go or talk on the other line to keep in suspense and wanting more. I do not know if experts consider this strategy good or bad, but I think it illustrates that you know she is full of shit, but instead of lowering yourself by getting mad you turn it into a DHV by implying you had/potentially have other options for dancing, and don't care that she is busy. |
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| Author: | drunk247 [ Wed Jul 01, 2009 12:58 am ] |
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thank you, i like that and defenly gives me a good theory to follow in situation like that |
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