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| Author: | slyguy [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | lookin for some advice... |
ok i can't tell you how much of a loser i feel like right now. once again i fucked up bad, but i'm learning from my mistakes i wanted to get some advice tho. so last nite i was hangin out w/ this girl, we finished a bottle of rum. we were pre gaming, so already i was thinking ok were goin to a party in like an hour. since that i was worryin about tryin to hook up w/ her. i was like does she want to? maybe she just wants to go to teh party. so anyway i end up not even making out w/ her. i wanted to and i most def could have, i just wasn't sure waht i should do. i mean i was talkin to her makin her laugh but i all i wanted to do was just start making out w/ her and i dont know if i shoulda just did that. i feel like such a fucking tool. so we go to this party,and as the night goes on she ends up makin out w/ anotehr dude, and ends up leavin w/ him. just thought id share, i seriously feel like a huge loser with absolutely no balls. i feel like i've never even hooked up w/ a girl, its bad |
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| Author: | drunk247 [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 3:51 am ] |
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Yea so rough night, chances resurface themselves its just a good idea to refraim urself and just let that be the past but make sure you learn from your mistakes. I think one thing u need on ur side is "a bag of tricks". Counting on her showing affection for you just because your making her laugh is not enough. Try and follow this: 1. Do ice breakers/ throw negs (donno if u used this) 2. Make her laugh as u can do(comfort building) check 3. Physical escalation (I donno if u did this but take her hands when u talk to her, put ur hand on her shoulder, spin her out of her seat and switch chairs/places and say i think I look better on this side, if shes serious say a corny joke and poke her to make her laugh 3. Be seductive/ (start talking slower, more eye contact, touch her nose and say ur so cute when u do smile like that) Kiss Close If you dont build the attraction nothin will happen. let me know if uhave more questions..hope that help[/quote] |
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| Author: | slyguy [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 8:37 pm ] |
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yea that helps, i'm lookin at this as a learnin experience... one of the final straws i would say. after that happend i never want that to happen again, so now when i'm in a similalr situation im gunna try hard to not make that happen |
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| Author: | drunk247 [ Thu Jun 25, 2009 5:23 pm ] |
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O h One kiss close that is really really helpful for when ur on public such and wanting to turn things a little bit more intese is this... Wear a hat...after ice breakers and a little physical escalation tell i think ud look bad ass with my hat on....take it from ur head put on her..... 2 things can happen- one shes accept it and then u make eye contact and smile then u say yea u defenly look bad ass and then u say I want my hat back and take it and then look at her and say u still look bad ass and laugh a little...continue making heavy eye contact and u can go for the kiss If she says no then be like Oh right what was I thinking, that would mess up you hair..switch to another routine This work like magic for me at the situations that u described so hope that shit helps |
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