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Author:  fatalclaw [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  How can i counter "What are u doing?"

Hm guys, after i try to put my hand on her leg/arm or try to kiss her after all tests succed and she still says " what are u doing" and make a distance, how should i counter that?

Author:  pier39lab [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 10:54 am ]
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Try and pretend that you just don't bother if she resists. Try another time, it should work. Or were you too quick?

Author:  Dangerboy [ Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:25 pm ]
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She doesnt feel comfortable enough with having you touch her because you didn't use enough light kino in the beginning. It's also possible that she doesn't feel comfortable enough because she doesn't trust you or that she just doesn't feel attracted to you.
In any case, the problem came from what you did and didn't do from the first moment you met.

Remember to use light kino right from the start to get her used to the fact that you're a touchy guy. It's also important to make your use of kino natural and your escalation natural. If it looks forced then it's creepy.
If she shuts you down, 2 steps back and resume from there. Don't let it shake you, just take it down a 2 levels and then move forward again BUT make sure you have enough comfort and attraction before you try move forward.

Author:  tim18 [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 5:09 am ]
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Reframe the shit test with something like "good point! Where the hell is my sanitizer? *smile*" then like someone said above me go 2 steps back then move forward...but make sure to take it a bit slower this time and have smoothe kino escalation

Author:  Antithesis [ Sun Jun 21, 2009 9:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How can i counter "What are u doing?"

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Hm guys, after i try to put my hand on her leg/arm or try to kiss her after all tests succed and she still says " what are u doing" and make a distance, how should i counter that?
You didn't develop enough comfort in the first place to do it. Just pretend it didn't happen and ignore/neg her down a little bit and try again later. :wink:

~Antithesis

Author:  drunk247 [ Mon Jun 22, 2009 3:33 am ]
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In that case I would ignore, and handle that like it dint bother you. Sometimes getting rejected at that moment can increase ur chances of being succesful the 2nd time if you handle the rejection as a alpha male.

In that case say id use the sanitizer line then negg her ....build some comfort ....and then when u think its a good moment look her in the eye count to 4 if eye connection is good say this slowly and confidently...

Iv noticed that your good at __________, I just cant stop wondering how good you are with your lips and slowly lean in for the kiss.

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