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Author:  maximillionaire [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  I don't get a date with her
Hi guys!

I have a problem with a girl I now know for 3 month...
(I know her a little bit longer but just from seeing each other, we went to the same school)

Let's start from beginning:

I added her to facebook because I knew that she knows me from school. There we chatted a little bit and then I added her to msn and we chatted there.

After some teasing I got her number and since then we are texting pretty much (number "close" after 1 month)

2times when we both we're online in msn she started texting me.
the rest of the time I start the convo.

In the text messages I neged her because she's italian, has to learn for school, not going to parties (altough she told me that she's a party tiger)...

2 weeks ago i called her at 11.30 pm and we talked about 1,5 hours she was giggling pretty much and we had a quite relaxed, nice and flowing convo.

After that phone call I texted her "...on sunday we go out for drink! but we will talk about who will invite who ;) (was a topic in another convo)

this week we texted pretty much and i teased her. she was very responsive and we had fun. But i always have to write first...

Then on friday (this week) after a pause of 1 day i texted:

Me: Knock Knock
She: Nobody at home
Me: Booooooooooh! Did I scare you?
She: (No response)

I think I over neged her and haven't built enough comfort...

what do you think? Should I call her today to built more comfort?
Author:  Mr E [ Sun Jun 07, 2009 7:05 pm ]
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Yeah bro, give her a call. but act laid back.

and no matter how it goes just see it as practise. no big deal.

good luck
Author:  Marc [ Mon Jun 08, 2009 1:29 am ]
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Step back and relax, dont be in a hurry to call. She is sensing tht U wanna get together w/ her. Just step back and dont talk to her on MSN unless she initiates. why do men have to be in a hurry to call women, chill....
Author:  maximillionaire [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 2:49 pm ]
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Hey thx for your advices!

I called her on wednesday but she didnt pick up. 5 min later she called back and said sorry, she was in the car an couldn't pick up the phone.
then we talked about 40 min about some funny things from school and about a teacher we share. I told her she should ask the teacher next day about me but thought that she wont do it.
She also told me that there is a sportday on friday at her school. after that i told her that its a pity cause i wanted to go having lunch with her cause i am near the school over lunch time.

The next day in the morning i received a text message from her in which she told me what the teacher said:"haha maximillionaire is a little rascal he always was laid back and nothing could upset him. but he is not bad boy"

until then we were texting us like 3 times a day.

but i did not ask her out for a date (during the phone call i thought its a little bit stupid cause i told her i wanted having lunch with her)

i think now she really knows that i want to go out with her.

what do you think? what would be your next steps?
Author:  Marc [ Sat Jul 04, 2009 1:30 am ]
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Keep it going and ask her out soon. If you keep the communication but dont meet up then that could be frustrating for her.
Author:  maximillionaire [ Wed Jul 15, 2009 9:33 am ]
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hi after my last post I freezed out for 2 weeks because I was a bored of the writing and calling without meeting.

Freezing out wasn't the best idea, i think. after the 2 weeks i called here but she didnt pick up and she didn't call back - nothing.
Since then we haven't had contact.
but its ok i was in party holidays (in europe its told that at this place the parties are like in usa when it's springbreak :D) so i had my fun there.

In august I will go back to the same school where she is going. what do you think, shall i contact her before or just go to school and then talk to her when i meet her?
Author:  lomac [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 10:08 pm ]
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i'd say you could pick up from where you left off. She could have been busy when you called and been too shy or something to call you back. Dont assume she doesnt want to talk to you anymore.

I think you should send her a text saying "What are you up to?" or "how are you doing?"

Let her reply in her own time. If she replies keep it going but do something differently because the last routine wasnt working too great. maybe ask to meet her. like after a few days or whatever of talking just say "we should meet up"

If she doesnt reply then leave it and wait and see. If she wont reply then she definately doesnt want you to call her immediately. either way you'll see her in august.
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