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| Author: | The Mutant [ Sun May 24, 2009 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Simple Q&A needed |
I did an approach Friday night with 2 HB9's at least dressed to the teeth. It went well they invited us to come into the club they were going into with but we were already going to a sheesha bar so I told but said why don't you give me your number. She came over and stood right beside me, great body language she told me to text her, and I gave her a little hug before we left ect. I waited until Sunday afternoon and just said "Hey this is Matt. Did you have fun Friday night.". I'm thinking about energy levels here. Q1)Hey this is Matt. Did you have fun Friday night" is a pretty low energy level which is what I was kinda meaning to do. Thinking that it would start a casual comfort building back and forth and then I would wait another day or two and call her. Maybe it would be better to come in at a higher energy level "Hey this is Matt. How was the sexy party for 2 on Friday night" I feel like what I said is pretty AFC. Alot of guys would write a line pretty similar to what I did I think. I don't want to pchsycoanalys this but does anyone have some insight or a good perspective for looking at this first contact after meeting so her brain doesn't kick me into the "not interested" catagory. |
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| Author: | beaves [ Sun May 24, 2009 11:59 pm ] |
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hey Matt. Theres nothing you can do now buddy, that txt is out there. Only she can decide now. I made a pretty similar mistake recently and got a whole bunch of advice and for future reference this is what people said and i learnt from the experience; -txt something asap so you stay in their memmory. -put a petname or call back to something fun in the txt... its a neg and endearing -other than that reference keep energy levels "low", what you said in the way of how was your night was pretty much straight forward and cant go wrong! -DHV with your night. ie. you missed out not coming for shisha it was the perfect way to wind down. That way your opening up a whole host of possibilities, with teasing, making her not leave your side next time and makes you not seem that bothered. If she doesnt reply dont send a second txt, it wont make any difference... I did but it was just to make myself feel better. Too high an energy level and being direct and decisive at the start results in her not knowing how to respond and so she wont. Leave it too long and she'll think your playing it cool and she might make a decission based on that. A quick txt later in the night or in the morning and there's nothing unusual about it, especially if your a confident guy who a good rep with the ladies! |
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| Author: | The Mutant [ Mon May 25, 2009 1:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Thanks dude! |
Thanks dude, I think that should pretty much take care of it. I can't wait to add it to the growing arsinal! I see what your saying about texting again I feel like I should try calling and leaving a really guenuine message. I guess I need to make up a rule for this sort of situation. Thanks again |
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