Hi man. I often text over msn, this I a conversation I had just e few mins ago.
Xen: Hey
HB8: Hi cutie, what are you doing?
Xen: watching two birds soar around eachother, really sweet =)
HB8: Hihi
Xen: I wonder if they always lived in that tree or if they are recently moved in neighbours.
HB8: Yeah, well that can be sorta hard to find out.
Xen: You know, we should play birdwatchers some day, then we can go and interview them and se how its really like
HB8: Haha sure thing, Im in!
HB8: I gotta go now
having dinner with my parrents tonight, but can I call you later?Xen: Sure , got coffee plans
HB8: Oh , well then maby I won't interupt, I can se what the clock is though.
Xen: No no silly, I meant with you.
HB: Ah haha, Ill call you after dinner then. Kiss
Frames behind that talk:
When she asks u what ur up to, dont say something boring "I just got home from the gym, need a shower" (which was what I really was up to) but instead try say something out of the ordinary which she gets a happy picture of.
Try make a scenario where she sees you two together, if u can make that scenario involve stuff that comes from the happy picture the she is more likely to accept it and se it as a fun thing.
So now she got a happy picture of you 2 doing something fun together, which is connected to a good feeling. When u then try to ask her out for a coffee or something, (I always prefer to do something where u can talk alot with the girls, cinema forbidden!) she almost certainly will say yes, even if shes busy that night with some other thing, she might rearrange it simply because she has this good image of u to hangin out.
Any thoughts on improving this scenario?