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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Mon Apr 20, 2009 3:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am I on the friend zone?? |
Hey guys, I've been approaching this girl for 6 months now. What makes it worse is that we never met since our last meeting 6 months ago. She got a lot of stuffs to do, too much logistics, etc. I don't know if she's lying to me but seems like that all of them are true. I managed to qualify her a lot these last few days, and see how the result was really amazing!! I should've done it before. Before, she'd never say anything like "Please pray for my graduation exam. I need some cheers-up. Please cheers-me up!". But starting from yesterday she replies to my text much faster, the longest takes about 20 minutes or so (before it'll take about 1 hour just for her to reply). And she also says "Cheers me up,please!! I need some cheers, I'm stressed". And 1 more thing: At her birthday, I played a composition (variation by a friend of mine, actually) for her. ( Booooo to me, that's too romantic isn't it?? Haha.. I can't meet her due to our schedule, so I just called her and played the composition. She told me that she's an addict to my piano playing by now and asked me to play more, but I refused and said: Steven: Play something for me too HB: Ummm, okay but not now. Maybe after my exam. And of course, not on the phone. We'll meet. Does this a form of attraction from her or it's just friend thing?? Would love to hear from you guys, Best pal, Steven |
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| Author: | fealinlucky [ Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:52 pm ] |
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hard to tell untill you actually meet in person, but it sounds like a LJBF... its hard because without meeting in person your chances of esclation are somewhat limited. the best i could say would be to attempt to keep the conversations a bit edgy put some sexy into it... maybe that will help... get in front of her and just keep up the kino... if this is a just friends, you will know pretty quick. JMT, Lucky |
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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 1:22 pm ] |
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Hey2, thanks for the advice man. Yeah, I've tried to put sexy on our text, and she said: HB: "I don't like to be called sexy. I admit that I'm not Me: I don't consider a girl sexy just by their looks. What I consider sexy is if they're intelligent, confident, open-minded, sensitive but strong, and of course, their beautiful eyes. I think I have a weakness for a girl with beautiful eyes. What's your best feature? HB: Absolutely not my body. XP I think it's my face. It's a combination of my slant eyes, snub nose and thin lips. Well, I have a weakness for a guy with kiling smile. Not everybody have it, you know. Hehe.. Then it just keep going. Haha... What do you think, guys?? Best pal, Steven |
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| Author: | MikeyCasanova [ Thu Apr 23, 2009 8:40 pm ] |
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LJBF, sorry bro, i wrote a thread "Dreaded Friend Zone" where I describe all these things. If you like her go for it, don't get too attached, and in the mean time, go out and have fun, Game on! |
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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 2:06 pm ] |
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Hmm, interesting guys!! But maybe let me explain the situation a little bit more: The girl has never enjoyed a relationship, kiss, or sex before. She occasionally talks about sex with me, but I think she wouldn't go for sex or kiss just yet. She's intelligent and her study is the 1st priority in her life now. And cultural differences may take part in this too. Most of the girls in my country, especially the good girls, don't have sex before their marriage. But in the big cities, yeah, they enjoy the western lifestyle, but in the city I'm currently living and this "unique" girl, I expect the situation a little bit different. I've asked some of the naturals and a best female friend of mine, they told me that she started to show some form of attraction yet. Although, she never confessed it, or directly speak it to me. And we haven't spend time together exclusively since 6 months ago, but yeah, we share a lot of things in common, so rapport and connection is built via texts and phones. Any opinion on this guys?? I just like this girl for her intelligent and more, but fortunately this feeling in my love haven't grown into more than attraction. Not yet love. Hehe... Thanks, guys! Best pal, Steven |
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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 2:09 pm ] |
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Hmm, interesting guys!! But maybe let me explain the situation a little bit more: The girl has never enjoyed a relationship, kiss, or sex before. She occasionally talks about sex with me, but I think she wouldn't go for sex or kiss just yet. She's intelligent and her study is the 1st priority in her life now. And cultural differences may take part in this too. Most of the girls in my country, especially the good girls, don't have sex before their marriage. But in the big cities, yeah, they enjoy the western lifestyle, but in the city I'm currently living and this "unique" girl, I expect the situation a little bit different. I've asked some of the naturals and a best female friend of mine, they told me that she started to show some form of attraction yet. Although, she never confessed it, or directly speak it to me. And we haven't spend time together exclusively since 6 months ago, but yeah, we share a lot of things in common, so rapport and connection is built via texts and phones. Any opinion on this guys?? I just like this girl for her intelligent and more, but fortunately this feeling in my love haven't grown into more than attraction. Not yet love. Hehe... Thanks, guys! Best pal, Steven |
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| Author: | V3nu [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 4:32 am ] |
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Quote: HB: Absolutely not my body. XP I think it's my face. It's a combination of my slant eyes, snub nose and thin lips. Well, I have a weakness for a guy with kiling smile. Not everybody have it, you know. Hehe..
HAHAHA that reminded of a girl I was kinoing and she was like stop touching me!, I was like , why wats worng, her responce: because my face is SO ugly ( she makes a puppy face) HAHAHA funny stuffQuote: They dont have sex until they get married
Are all the girls in your town Mormons??? hahahaYah I agree it is a type of LJBF but keep talking to her if you like her, but I think you can't really do anything else until you actually meet her and start escalating V3nu |
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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Sun Apr 26, 2009 12:47 am ] |
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Hey guys, I don't know where shall I post it, but I decided to make a 2 posts on different section. It's an absurdly long and detailed, so please don't get bored. Finally, she hung out with me yesterday. But not with me alone, we go with my friends too. She appears to be shy girl, family girl (every relationship/ friendship with boys are controlled by her parents), never been on a relationship before, having few male friends, and so that makes her completely clumsy with the boys. And for God's sake, she didn't accept my kino on her face! Anyway, I told her the day before we met, there's a bazaar going in my school. I texted her that she should come along, there's a lots of people, so there's no chance that you'd do "anything dangerous" to me. She texted back "I'll never will. I'm not interested The next day she came to my school, she said that the bazaar stuff was really boring, I don't know what to do, I asked an advice from a friend he said just show her the place around. So we walked around the school and she played the piano a lil bit for me. Quite romantic isn't it?? After that we got back to my friends, I left her in the hands of my friends, and I'm just looking around to find and making friends, (to generate social proof). And after some moment I got back to her and said Me: Let's go out HB: Where? Me: My house, it's boring around here. You can get free lunch there. And we can do something else, like playing on the piano (the piano is better in my house, so it's quite good of a reason, besides she promised me that she'll play) HB: No way I'll go with you alone, I"ll stay with Grace (Grace is my best friend) Me: But Grace's is waiting for her friend. You decide, u want to stay here and get bored or go out with me and do something else? HB:.... I'll ask Grace Then she asked Grace and Grace told her that she'll tell her friends 1st. While Grace's off, I isolate and were talking with her. I talked her about her ambitions, place that she wants to visit, and about kissing stuff. Then I tried to kino her on the face, tell her that her face looked really similar to my sister, but she rejected it. Then Grace came and we're off to my house. On the way home, I met a lot of friends, the shop clerks, neighbours and HB said "You know everybody around here?????" And I just said "I'm Adam Lyons" (I told her about AFC Adam before, but she didn't know that AFC Adam is a pickup guru and I'm learning pickup, why bother telling more if she isn't asking?). She laughed and we continued walking. Before we arrived she said "Umm, can't we go to Grace's place instead?? It's just I don't feel good if my parents know that I go to a boy's house." I said "Nah, it's just 3 more houses away". Finally we arrived at my place and she met my mum (is it going serious now?) and chatted with her a lil bit. She played the piano, chatted and eventually before she leaves we took a pic. In the night I texted her (maybe it's negging, I don't know) "Hey, HB, thanks for behaving like a queen (she's really quiet back there, so is it negging?) Haha.. And she didn't reply. My question is: 1) She said that she's bored while in the school, so is there any chance that she's still willing to spend the time together?? 2) She didn't accept my kino, she freezed me out a few times, I did the same thing to build comfort. What should I do?? 3) What I shouldn't have done?? Sorry for unnecessary details, I just want to post it as detailed as possible. Best pal, Steven |
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