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Author:  Jlax [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you confront a girl who...
Doesn't text you back? This on girl in particular is very hard to understand. She has a boyfriend and plays hard to get. One day she texts me.

HB:"**** are you mad at me?!?!"
Me:Nooo? Don't believe everything you hear :)
HB: Lol ilyy mann how you been?
Me: Pretty good same shit different day hby??\

Then I didn't get a response... Where did I go wrong? And next time how do I confront her when she doesn't text backk?
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 8:16 pm ]
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Doesn't text you back? This on girl in particular is very hard to understand. She has a boyfriend and plays hard to get. One day she texts me.

HB:"**** are you mad at me?!?!"
Me:Nooo? Don't believe everything you hear :)
HB: Lol ilyy mann how you been?
Me: Pretty good same shit different day hby??\

Then I didn't get a response... Where did I go wrong? And next time how do I confront her when she doesn't text backk?
Don't confront her about it. Honestly, the old "Same shit different day" doesn't give her a lot to go on. It sounds negative as well, maybe she didn't want to hear about a bad day.

She has a boyfriend, find someone else.
Author:  sixtopher [ Mon Apr 13, 2009 11:48 pm ]
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Doesn't text you back? This on girl in particular is very hard to understand. She has a boyfriend and plays hard to get. One day she texts me.

HB:"**** are you mad at me?!?!"
Me:Nooo? Don't believe everything you hear :)
HB: Lol ilyy mann how you been?
Me: Pretty good same shit different day hby??\

Then I didn't get a response... Where did I go wrong? And next time how do I confront her when she doesn't text backk?
I totally agree with smooth. A proper response would have been a short joke/dhv like "pretty good went to the moon this morning...hby" or better yet like smooth said let her go. There's too many women...beautiful women on earth to be worried about a chick that has a boyfriend not texting you back. also lengthy text conversations are annoying as fuck after about 3 exchanges I usually just stop talking or ask her to call if she wants to continue to talk. I'm a busy man...so are you.
Author:  Jlax [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 4:49 pm ]
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Ok... How do you confront a girl who doesnt text you back and DOESNT have a bf?
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 5:45 pm ]
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Ok... How do you confront a girl who doesnt text you back and DOESNT have a bf?
Why say anything about it at all? Don't take it personally. Why not continue on gaming her like normal.
Author:  desperate [ Tue Apr 14, 2009 6:23 pm ]
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I agree with the others : don't take it personally. Some people just don't text back. I agree it's rude, especially when you end your text with a question and they don't text back, but I have a couple of friends who do this to me (I'm a girl) and that's just the way they are, sometimes I'll get five crazy texts in a row and sometimes this weird silence. My guess is that they just have a short attention span - they text when they're bored and then either lose interest (because your response isn't captivating enough - and you have to admit this could have been the reason in your case) or something else comes up to distract them.
Author:  sixtopher [ Wed Apr 15, 2009 2:14 am ]
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Not only that but there are people on earth that don't sit in front of a computer blogging and twittering all day. There's been entire weekends where I left my phone or phone charger at home and couldn't get back to the house for 2 or three days. If you're really itching to talk to her cal her. The worst she could do is say she's busy..at least you'll be able to squeeze what she's doing out of her before she hangs up, to clear your worried head.

Also some people just plain old dont realy like texting...I hate text conversations. texting is supposed to be used like twitter. Short sweet comments, much like...hey we're headed here right now, we're gonna be late give us a few minutes, I'm texting you my number call me sometime. Another thing that really pisses me off is when I give a direction over text like do this or we'll be late and someone responds with ok...just fucking ok. Pisses me off for some reason.
Author:  [Vegas] [ Wed Apr 15, 2009 3:01 am ]
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I wouldn't bring it up to her or dwell on it because I don't think it means anything. Just keep gaming her in person. You asked what you did wrong and I think technically you didn't make a bad move, but you could have made it better by being spontaneous and different. You sent a plain and typical "oh, nothing" response which every other guy and his brother will give her. Be different and say something off the wall to spark her attention/interest.
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