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Author:  shiva420 [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 8:20 am ]
Post subject:  #-close without talking to girl

Hey guys,
I was at this rave party and got eye contact from this same girl several times but didnt do anything since it was impossible talk over there. So, when I was leaving with my buddies, I walked to her and said that I wanted her number, and she gave it.

How do I act from here? Never been situation like this, only thing I know about her is her name.

Author:  PhantomNYC [ Mon Apr 06, 2009 4:38 pm ]
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send her a txt like this

pua: hey *girl* its *name*, the craziest thing happened when we parted

hb: what happened?

pua: its too long to txt im gonna call u when i get home

hb: okayy :)

now she's gonna be expecting u to call, give her an interesting story then just talk to her, do connection phase or use the cube on her

Author:  Libido [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:22 am ]
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You: Hey (girl) its (name) u looked to lonely today. How com u were too shy to come up and rescue me from (what ever was preventing u from talking to her)

HB: Hey whats up? ha im not shy, u looked lik u were havin hun
You: *neg her for being shy or not bein there or somthin

Author:  moony [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 5:30 am ]
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no dont say why didnt you save me... that is a DLV

go ahead and say "i saw you looking at me the entire time, you needed to not be so shy and actually have said hi"

it shows your dominant and that your confident. and its a neg, since its not a diss, but it questions her confidence which makes her have to qualify herself to you

Author:  Musterion [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:28 pm ]
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go ahead and say "i saw you looking at me the entire time, you needed to not be so shy and actually have said hi"

it shows your dominant and that your confident. and its a neg, since its not a diss, but it questions her confidence which makes her have to qualify herself to you
Perhaps, but that is just inviting her to say "well if you saw me looking at you, why didn't YOU come and say hi?"
If it were me I'd say something generic like "Hey so what did you get up to after the other night?" just something basic to get a little bit of talking going (not for too long of course), then with the next text(s) throw a little cocky funny to bump her attraction somewhat then go for organising a day 2 by calling her so she can hear your voice and you don't become just words on a screen to her.

It's a little difficult to play this one out because you won't have any comfort with her which increases the chances of her flaking. You could try bridging it when talking to her about a day 2, suggesting you'd like to see if there is more to her than a pretty face etc.

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