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| Author: | dilequeno [ Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | BASIC DAY2 experience -need input |
hey guys, here's the story: i open her in the street, we have a connection, she laughs and gives me her number. i call her the next day, we agree to meet for the weekend (busy schedule on my part). day2: she sends me a message telling me she's late, i answer she owes me one. she arrives and throws hundreds of 'im sorry for being sorry sorry...'. we talked for about an hour that day. i think it's going fine, i show DHVs, and lots of storytelling (too much i think). my mistake was that i havent been cocky&funny enough (she was responding to that...), a little kino (not enough too few hours later back, i send her a text. i have to mention she is visiting my country and doesnt speak the language. basically it went: me-are you studying? her-haha im trying, hows your party? me-good, i'm speaking a mix of different languages because of you now her- haha good you're international. although your people might not like that! me-actually they don't! you have a bad influence on me! SO, i didn't receive any answer to that last text although i waited for it. i thought she was interested, now i'm having second thoughts. i think my mistake was that i wasnt cocky&funny enough at our date, and tried to fix that by doing so throught texting which might have looked a bit forward to her, maybe? i'm probably overanalyzing. what i plan to do is to invite her to visit a nice place around here, and doing more kino if she's ok to meet again. Any comments on this, advices on how to handle it from now, thoughts, any ideas are very welcome. thanks a lot! |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 5:07 pm ] |
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Dude, You are completely over analyzing this. Cocky Funny is okay but honestly it's not a great method on it's own and is mostly just used at the beginning of an interaction. If you were going to use it it should have been when you first met her. Anyways, you got a date with her on the spot when you met her. You couldn't have possibly done that bad. She listen to you during the interaction and gave you indicators of interest. She even agreed to the "idea' of another date, which is always good. You are over thinking this stuff. Just get her back out on a date with you and do what you've been doing man. Keep the kino going and build a connection with her. ~Jon~ |
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