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| Author: | doc sampson [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 2:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | need some help with this situation |
What's up guys? About a month ago I started talking to this girl in my class and I have built up a decent amount of attraction. She's really into me, but the problem is she has a boyfriend and even wears a promise ring. She gave me her number to "txt her if I needed help getting to a street in town" (I am new to the town). Anyway, I sent her a txt asking her for directions (mainly so I can spark up a convo, and she can have my number). I ended up asking her to hang out on wednesday. She agreed but made me confirm that we are hanging out "as friends." I am well aware of the friend zone, and I have not acted like one of those guys at all. There is definitely attraction here. I'm assuming she may just be feeling guilty hanging out with another guy. Anyway, how would you guys go about this situation??? |
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| Author: | bot [ Tue Mar 17, 2009 6:57 pm ] |
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congrats on making your way to the forum first of all Obviously she's into you by what you said; she gave you her number, she agreed to see you. She is giving your LMR (Last Minute Resistance) The way I would approach it is to be laid back at first, but still testing the waters. If you dont show her your intentions you will fall into the lets just be friends zone. Good way to start is just nudging her or having a tickle fight or anything to get some kino going. |
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| Author: | doc sampson [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Change of Plans |
Well the girl ended up changing her mind about seeing me. She sent me text saying how she has nothing against me, but feels weird hanging out with another guy. I just brushed it off and replied with something like "too bad, would have been a good time." I'm sure you guys would have had an ace up your sleeves, but I'm new at this! Anyway, she is in my class and I will see her next Tuesday. How should I play this? I am sure she is attracted to me, she just needs a little push to get away from her boyfriend/pre-fiancee or whatever the hell you would call him. And before someone says I have "one-itis" let me say that I am talking to another girl. It's just that I feel that I have a good chance with this one and I don't want to throw it all out (I spent a decent amount of time building attraction). Thanks in advance for the help |
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| Author: | Fu$$ [ Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:22 pm ] |
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Man, control the frame, make her thinks that shes chasing you, you should say something like that: "I dont want you supposing theres something between us, right?" and then make another step forward. Send mixed signals, make her thinks all day about you "he's interested or not?", "Am I much attractive for him?"... Take the Swinggcat advices on important beliefs to get laid: You are the PRIZE. She is trying to get you to like her or trying to win you over—whether it be in the sense of attraction, acceptance or validation. She wants you so bad that she is trying to make you sleep with her. The both of you are going to sleep together, but only if she lives up to your standards and expectations. Anyway, dont you complain so much about just one girl. Rocks! |
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| Author: | Fathom [ Thu Mar 19, 2009 12:47 am ] |
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Right now, her mindset is: you're chasing her, she chooses between you and her BF. Obviously, short of her and her BF getting into a fight or whatever, you can't beat him at this game. Now, we can't wait around for that to happen, so what you need to do is change the mindset. What you're looking for is a mentality where she is chasing you, and her BF is a small guilty spot in the back of her mind until she breaks up with him. Once we recognize this change in the mindset, it's easy to see how to act. You've gotten her to like you somewhat, and she knows you're a good guy so now's the time to throw negs. If you sit next to her in class, this is a great opportunity to use a lot of body language, because she'll be looking at you during the boring parts of class. Intersperse this with some playful Kino, and maybe a bit of DHV and she'll be on her knees for you. |
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