So I have been experiementing a little bit with these kiss closes. I now nearly always try to kiss the girl after we exchange numbers.
Kiss close 1:
I was doing this slow, passionate type, moving hair out of the face style kiss close. There were no surprises that I was going in, eye contact was there, and we were obviously sharing this "connection" before I went in for it.
I tried this close quite a bit and it was okay but not great. It is good to get the kiss before the first date, but I have a theory about this vs a surprise kiss. In this instance a girl has to commit, and she sees it coming, and she must think about if she is ready for this. I have had girls turn away, and I have had girls go with it.
Kiss close 2:
The other approach is a surprise kiss. I would do this mid conversation. Or I would get the number, then go to leave, then turn around real quick as if I had something to say and kiss her quickly. These are not passionate kisses at all, they are just for shock value. After I do it I always say; "i just stole a kiss from you" then i smirk and walk away...
I have had better results with the second close. The first close, they might remember that we had kissed and thought that we had a connection, but that feeling fades away. They feel like they were a part of this decision, even though it was you who orchestrated everything.
The surprise kiss will leave a bigger impression, and I have got rejected a lot less. They don't have time to reject you, and they don't have a say in it at all. We are alpha males that do what we want. When they go home they will be in shock, and love the fact that you just randomly kissed her at your own will, in mid conversation.
Okay, I am running late, I have a hot date tonight and i have to pick up some wine on the way home
but let me know what you think! give it a try
