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Author:  Marvel [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  tips on gettin in the PUA mindset when caught off guard
....so I've got this HB7 that has given me major ioi during a party, but the party ends with a huge fight and we both scatter home with friends. she ends textin me me a few days later. "this is (so and so), how are you? made it home ok friday?" I respond, "yeah, good to c you also made it out ok. did you find your friend that called?"

then she calls me later and catches me off guard as I am still sleeping (not prepped with any push pull, neg, etc....) there is comfort already, but how do i spell attraction over phone. We ended up talking bout what happened that night (the whole time i am thinkin, shit, where do i start, mind is still waking up) in explaining the situation of what happened that night, i accidentally care too much about not losin this one and BAM! DLV myself in the head with what did you do over the weekend?

She:Oh, I went out with friends.
Me:Oh yeah, I went out to clubs with friends too.
She: You go a lot don't you?
Me: Only when a certian single friend drags me out there. (i know, I know - DLV)
She:You sure it's not the other way around?!
Me: (still half asleep) naw, mang, when's the last time you went to the club? (trying to kinda change subject)....
dadadada

then she goes, hey, I'll call you back.....so I didn't even get to be the first to hang up, forgot about time constraint, ARG!

tips on what to do next?

or how about tips on how to get into the right frame of mind when PUA hasn't really become truly a lifestyle yet where it's on all the time....what are some ways you "get into the zone" quickly when caught off guard? (i am still AFC stage I'm guessin).
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 5:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: tips on gettin in the PUA mindset when caught off guard
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she ends textin me me a few days later. "this is (so and so), how are you? made it home ok friday?"
This is a good sign that she likes you, she made contact with you first.


I respond, "yeah, good to c you also made it out ok. did you find your friend that called?"
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there is comfort already, but how do i spell attraction over phone.
There is comfort already... another positive sign for you. You can kino this
chick and possibly do more with her without any rejection from her.
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We ended up talking bout what happened that night (the whole time i am thinkin, shit, where do i start, mind is still waking up) in explaining the situation of what happened that night, i accidentally care too much about not losin this one and BAM! DLV myself in the head with what did you do over the weekend?
Next time, just tell her that you are sleeping and for her to call you in the
morning. If she don't, the next time she does call you, call her out about
flaking on you by not calling you. But tell her that you were too busy anyways
and would not have been able to talk to her.
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She:Oh, I went out with friends.
Me:Oh yeah, I went out to clubs with friends too.
She: You go a lot don't you?
Me: Only when a certian single friend drags me out there. (i know, I know - DLV)
She:You sure it's not the other way around?!
Me: (still half asleep) naw, mang, when's the last time you went to the club? (trying to kinda change subject)....
dadadada
I don't see any harm in this. And I usually read into everything if it heeds
my attention.
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then she goes, hey, I'll call you back.....so I didn't even get to be the first to hang up, forgot about time constraint, ARG!
She might still live with her parents and they might have told her to get
off the phone and go to bed otherwise they were going to take her phone.

Then again, she might have needed to go to the bathroom..
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tips on how to get into the right frame of mind when PUA hasn't really become truly a lifestyle yet where it's on all the time....
Just tease her about shit, you will know when you are crossing the line
by her replies and voice tone.. with knowledge comes power.. the only way
to get knowledge is by having a lot of street smarts and by trial and error.

Books help you to get your ass in gear and to give you that little extra push
to get out there and start talking to chicks. They give you a little bit of
knowledge so you can start approaching and shit so you can learn to deal
with the other shit that crosses your path.
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what are some ways you "get into the zone" quickly when caught off guard? (i am still AFC stage I'm guessin).
There is no definite "key" that you can have in order to "get in the zone"
if you are caught off guard. If you feel like you caught off guard, and your
gut is like "what the fuck is this???"

Just say, "uh huh." Or just don't too interested in what was said...

Also, never ever say, "What?" if you did not hear what the girl said... this
my friend is like you are reaching for straws.. you are trying to be too
involved with her...

Don't get it twisted, if she says something that you cannot believe she just
that... then it is perfectly fine to come back with, "What did you just say.."

Just never reach for straws and try to win her affection/attention.
Author:  Marvel [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 9:37 am ]
Post subject: 
thanks Lep, she's is mos def into me.....I just didn't feel any playfulness or connection like I know I should have over the phone.....but you know what.....

....I'll probably call her tomorrow and demand a hangout (i.e. I am going to be here, you should join me, or your going to miss out on all the fun!). Then, when and if she shows, I will walk right up and not even say a word, just put my finger to my mouth ushering her with a, "shhhhhhhh" to be quiet, make extreme eyefuckin contact with a serious "I am so going to fuck you" face and grab her around the back of the head slowly, then go in for the eskimo kiss to the peck to lips kiss to tongue on teeth to full on french and pull her hips in to mine! (run on sentences because it's late). And screw lines. Of course all of this is done in calibration with if she keeps eye contact, if she let's me put hand to back of head, if she keeps kiss on, etc........

I'll let yall know how it goes....because honestly, I am the prize. Let's see if she'll win me.
Author:  Walt [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 1:01 pm ]
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Slight side topic;

But whats a good reply to when a HB Comment: "You seem to go out a lot" / "Do you go clubbing often?"

I do see this as a shit test with the subtext being, do you hook up with random girls often.

I guess my initial comeback would be "Yeah, I'm addicted to having fun!"
Author:  Marvel [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 9:09 pm ]
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But whats a good reply to when a HB Comment: "You seem to go out a lot" / "Do you go clubbing often?"
Well, after a good "awake" thinking moment, I should've just been confident and good in my own skin and said, "Yeah, I love going, truth is, I love to dance and have fun. You like to have fun, don't you?!" .....mostly because that's true....I do love to groove. It shows you ain't takin her shit and you create your own frame of living in. Her "amazing intuition" (that apparently all women have) would tell her I was true.

Because I danced provocatively with her before already.
Author:  Marvel [ Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:06 am ]
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Ahahah, shit worked like a charm. I didn't even call, she ended up callin me.....then we met up at Borders and wam bam thank you mam Kiss closed no words necessary, no routines, no nada....if I don't close this one, then I will give up trying to be a PUA.

We ended up chattin for a bit over some drinks and she is blushing the whole time we talk. I really did have to get going because I'm have to catch a flight to LA so couldn't F close that night.....but it's as good as a done deal.

I plan on going to the drive in with her next week....keep yall posted.
Author:  dilequeno [ Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:13 am ]
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actually i like when i get a girl phone call to wake me up. of course my pua thoughts are not ready yet, but when i wake up i just don't give a shit about anything... so it's just perfect. not to mention, the caveman voice is always a turn on for girls!
Author:  Marvel [ Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:13 pm ]
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not to mention, the caveman voice is always a turn on for girls!
LMAO! hhahaahah....that's great. I've gotten compliments on that before, and then I'd be like, "WTF, my voice isn't usually like that".
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