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Author:  smartass [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:37 am ]
Post subject:  D3 at my place... escalation ideas?
Met this new girl, and really like her. The D2 had to be cut short due to logistics, but we've hung out for a good 3 hours. I worked quickly to plant the seed to come back to my place, and voila - today I get a txt out of the blue saying she wants to meet up "on my side of town"

If Mystery is right, we've got another 4 hours of ground to cover... At the same time, while I've kino escalated, we haven't kissed yet. Is that a barrier to physical escalation? I know she's attracted to me (she's said I'm "really cute") and I think we're somewhere around C2.

My plan is to play some games, and watch a movie and physically escalate and go for the make out. BUT, I'm wondering if I shouldn't do something like "hey, it will cost you a kiss to get in" when she's at the front door... Make it nice and awkward to get her more comfortable to physical advances later on...

Also, what do you guys think about meeting quickly at my place, and bouncing somewhere else (coffee shop? dinner? I donno), till she eventually has to come back (for the movie or w/e)..?
Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: D3 at my place... escalation ideas?
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Met this new girl, and really like her. The D2 had to be cut short due to logistics, but we've hung out for a good 3 hours. I worked quickly to plant the seed to come back to my place, and voila - today I get a txt out of the blue saying she wants to meet up "on my side of town"

If Mystery is right, we've got another 4 hours of ground to cover... At the same time, while I've kino escalated, we haven't kissed yet. Is that a barrier to physical escalation? I know she's attracted to me (she's said I'm "really cute") and I think we're somewhere around C2.

My plan is to play some games, and watch a movie and physically escalate and go for the make out. BUT, I'm wondering if I shouldn't do something like "hey, it will cost you a kiss to get in" when she's at the front door... Make it nice and awkward to get her more comfortable to physical advances later on...

Also, what do you guys think about meeting quickly at my place, and bouncing somewhere else (coffee shop? dinner? I donno), till she eventually has to come back (for the movie or w/e)..?
Hey Bro!

I think that it's a great idea to have her quickly meet at your place and then go somewhere. That way she is comfortable with the environment and knows what she's going back to. There is less hesitation that way for later.

I wouldn't do the kiss thing at the door, that makes things awkward at first. Just start off in a fun and playful mood. You are definitely in C2 at this point. When you get into "seductive kissing" or make outs you're in C3 to S1 at that point. You need to work for the basic kiss or two before you can move to the other in most cases.

Just take the intiative to get the first few kisses and then press things later when you're back at your place. Just remember women need a social acceptance. You have to have a "reason" that is socially accepted for why she's back at your place. Like you were playing Wii then one thing led to another.

Just focus on having her come by your place first, then the kiss, escalating for more, social acceptance to go back to your place, and have FUN!
Author:  smartass [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 8:09 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the response!

Logistically, do you think it's easier/better performed at night? I can't believe I'm still trying to work everything out in my head and the "date" is tomorrow... lol...

Ok, how about this... (bear with me, I need a game plan)

-Meet at my place around 6 (she can eat dinner on her own :P)
-Show her around quick, then drive her to a coffee/tea place...
I know they have couches there so it would be a good comfortable place.

-Chat for a couple hours...kinokinokino Move in for the kiss...
-Take her back to my place to watch this "awesome movie"
-Escalate during the movie... (another friend said massage works)
-Get naked
Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:09 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Thanks for the response!

Logistically, do you think it's easier/better performed at night? I can't believe I'm still trying to work everything out in my head and the "date" is tomorrow... lol...

Ok, how about this... (bear with me, I need a game plan)

-Meet at my place around 6 (she can eat dinner on her own :P)
-Show her around quick, then drive her to a coffee/tea place...
I know they have couches there so it would be a good comfortable place.

-Chat for a couple hours...kinokinokino Move in for the kiss...
-Take her back to my place to watch this "awesome movie"
-Escalate during the movie... (another friend said massage works)
-Get naked
Not a bad plan. Now just go out there and work it.
Author:  svtferrari [ Wed Feb 11, 2009 9:19 pm ]
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I really like your gameplan for your night with this girl. At some point at the coffee place I would bring up massages and how its one of your favorite things just to get the wheels spinning in her head. Once back at your place you can either subtly mention that your neck has been bugging you or even just play a game of some kind and the winner gets a massage. (win win) I've found that massages are a gold mine as far as kino escalating and putting her in the mood. At the end of the massage just go for it! I cant wait to hear how it goes
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