When I got out, I'm sure many of you have similar ways of looking for IOI's, but I made it a personal rule to never ask for their names and I never ask for phone numbers...I will talk all night but until they ask me what my name is, I won't ask them for their name.
In a similar way, I think that it drastically reduces no "no call back" ratio and flakiness of girls when you literally don't give a shit if you get their numbers....
When i have been talking to a girl and it comes to the point where i am leaving I just give the "i had a good time, but, have a good night!" impression, and I leave the window open for them to say "but, don't you want my number, don't you want to see me again???" Then I pretend, yea I am usually pretty busy, i don't really know if it is worth it, but I will leave you my number, send me a text or call me this week....
My phone gets filled up with so many numbers of girls i don't even ever talk to again that this reduces the bull shit numbers in my phone, and leaves me with quality girls that aren't going to flake out.
My newest thought that I want to try this week, and I am sure it has been done before, (if so, please give me some feed back)
The scenerio would be that I meet a girl, we "bond" then when i am leaving she wants to exchange numbers...instead i get a napkin and ask her to meet me for a drink at bar/restaurant x...i write it down on the napkin, the time, the place, my name, maybe a little stick figure picture of us holding hands and a heart, and i tell her, we can exchange numbers the next time we meet! it sounds fun and i think girls would like that approach.
*another side note...when i do give girls my phone number, i never put it in their phones, i always write it down old school, and write other shit, love notes, pictures, funny shit like that....
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