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Author:  rustysax [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 4:57 pm ]
Post subject:  #-closed. K-closed. Went on first date. Now.... hmmm?

So,

Friends at a bar. Everyone was there and I met a nice blonde talked to her. Had a few drinks. Got her # and she invited me back to there apartment in the city for a little after-party. Talked a little more, K-closed and put the chick to sleep ( was to wasted). Called her 3 days later and setup a date for that weekend. Went to a hip chinese restaurant. Had good conversation, then went to a bar after dinner for some more drinks and chit-chat. Talked alot laughed etc etc. Before I left we made-out for a little and said our goodbyes.

So... now what? I believe she said she was busy this coming weekend... so do i call her and ask her how her week went? Dont call her at all? I like her... but dont want a case of one-itis.

Tips/advice/suggestions?

Author:  destrukkt [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:05 pm ]
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i would text her something funny late in the week right before the weekend, and maybe talk for awhile. who knows, if her plans don't take up alnt to chill. ght call you up and see if you want to chill. don't say that though, you'll sound real eager. i'd call her on the tuesday after her busy weekend and set something up for thursday or friday. don't make plans too far in advance though. that too will seem eager. it's okay if she does, though. just make sure you follow through with them.

Author:  rustysax [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 7:17 pm ]
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i would text her something funny late in the week right before the weekend, and maybe talk for awhile. who knows, if her plans don't take up alnt to chill. ght call you up and see if you want to chill. don't say that though, you'll sound real eager. i'd call her on the tuesday after her busy weekend and set something up for thursday or friday. don't make plans too far in advance though. that too will seem eager. it's okay if she does, though. just make sure you follow through with them.
What does "GHT" stand for?

Texting her later this week is a good idea. Although recently I have seen some posters hint at the fact that waiting to long could be a mistake aswell?

Author:  destrukkt [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 7:43 pm ]
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ha, i just re-read that and i don't know what happened. it should say "if her plans don't take up all her time that weekend, maybe she'll call you to hang out" yeah, i mean, it depends on the situation. if you built a good connection, then a week is a big deal. i mean, you already know she has plans, and since she knows that you know this, she's not expecting you to call her that weekend really. i would text her though and say "hey you, how's your weekend going?" if you feel more comfortable. the key is making sure she is thinking about you, you know ? so yeah, text her casually during the weekend. Keep contact, but don't be needy for her time.

Author:  rustysax [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 11:22 pm ]
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ha, i just re-read that and i don't know what happened. it should say "if her plans don't take up all her time that weekend, maybe she'll call you to hang out" yeah, i mean, it depends on the situation. if you built a good connection, then a week is a big deal. i mean, you already know she has plans, and since she knows that you know this, she's not expecting you to call her that weekend really. i would text her though and say "hey you, how's your weekend going?" if you feel more comfortable. the key is making sure she is thinking about you, you know ? so yeah, text her casually during the weekend. Keep contact, but don't be needy for her time.
Yeah sounds good... ill text her around Wed and ask her how the week is going.

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