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OK I met a girl at the club so this will be our second meeting. I did a decent job of DHV, being alpha, not needy, etc. but didnt really kino at all besides some light touching on the arm during teasing. HB7 btw.
I told her I was buying a going away gift for a friend and she agreed to come along and help. So what should be my goal or routine here? I have never done something like this with a girl I really know nothing about.
1. How should my opener go when I see her?
2. Where should we meet at in the mall? What are some possible ways to bounce from the mall to say like a nearby starbucks, etc.?
3. How should I go about escalating kino? Would a kiss close be possible?
4. What kind of routines can I run that will build rapport, DHV?
My friend who is kind of a "natural" says I should take her out on a date instead or she will put me in the friend zone. What do you guys think about this?
1. You don't really need an opener "Hi" will work just fine.I told her I was buying a going away gift for a friend and she agreed to come along and help. So what should be my goal or routine here? I have never done something like this with a girl I really know nothing about.
1. How should my opener go when I see her?
2. Where should we meet at in the mall? What are some possible ways to bounce from the mall to say like a nearby starbucks, etc.?
3. How should I go about escalating kino? Would a kiss close be possible?
4. What kind of routines can I run that will build rapport, DHV?
My friend who is kind of a "natural" says I should take her out on a date instead or she will put me in the friend zone. What do you guys think about this?
2. I'd meet in the mall. To bounce you can simply say, "I can really go for a xxxx late', you should come with."
3. Just keep touching her when you can naturally. If she says something funny touch her arm or shoulder. Also, you can put your hand on the small of her back to guide her around a place, hold hands etc.
You can always go in for a kiss if the moment feels good.
4. Don't worry about routines. Be you! Simply talk to her and get to know her while staying busy shopping and stuff. it'll go fine. Pepper in the DHV spikes where you can. You already know what they are. If she says something, try to spin off and do a short DHV story.
As a smart general once said, "No plan survives first contact with the enemy." Try not to plan too much because it's all going to hell anyways when you guys get together.
Hope it helps!
