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Author:  FNB [ Fri Dec 26, 2008 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Friends or not?
This is actually one of the biggest sticking points in my entire game. It sounds actually very AFC but this is actually the only right place to ask this so I'll ask it here:

I usually do not have problems getting a girl to like me and give me her number. This even with SHB10s. So I can VERY easily # close. That's the easiest part. The much bigger problem for me is actually to know if she likes me as a friend or as a potential lover or BF. This is the biggest reason why I don't ask many girls out on day 2's. This as I usually think that the girls only like me as a friend and nothing more. I don't know if she has any other feelings for me. This starts to feel so stupid that I now have to ask you guys for your help! The girls that I meet are either from courses, college parties, work or more seldomly real night clubs. So how do I know if she likes me as a friend or one that I can ask out on a date? I got girls noticing me like WoW! most days when walking outside. This is my sticking point were it almost always stops. What should I do? Is there any ways to know if she likes me like a friend or as a potential lover or BF?
Author:  Prevue [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 12:08 am ]
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There is no easy button to see if your gonna be in LJBF category. I suggest a slight change in tactics to help move you in the right direction. If you can # close with ease then go on to deeper waters and focus on the kiss close instead. If you can KC a HB at the bar then it should drastically reduce your chances of LJBF.

When I would sarge with a buddy of mine, he would be pissed if I just got a chick's number. Make it a goal to try and get the kiss before you get the phone number or make sure you at least KC any chick you get a number from.

Don't settle for second best!

Cheers and happy hunting!
Author:  FNB [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 11:29 am ]
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A Day 2, date or dating is according to Wikipedia "any social activity undertaken by, typically, two people with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as their partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse". It's one of the easiest things in the world to approach, open and speak to pretty much any girl and it doesn't even matter if she is a SHB10. I know in most cases that I can get her #. My problem is that I don't know if she did see me as a LJBF when she gave me her number or if I can ask her on a date with me. Should I look for IoIs or something? The problem with this is that pretty much any girl gives me AIs when out or IoIs when we interact but does a girl give IoIs if she is seeing me as a LJBF? So in short am I in LJBF mood when she gives me her number and if she gives it can I ask her out? I'm a afraid that I'm in LJBF mood. Im feeling like an AFC when I don't know this... :(
Author:  Prevue [ Sat Dec 27, 2008 4:13 pm ]
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Again, you need to switch focus and not worry so much the number close and go for greater attraction at the initial meeting.

Most people can number close-its a good first step-but now is time to retool your game and go for the kiss close.

Nix the number--close with the kiss.
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