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Author:  entry07 [ Sat May 05, 2007 12:53 pm ]
Post subject:  My first kiss close w/in 15 minutes! Now what?

Awesome! Cute little hb7.75 at the guggenheim museum (dance nite) last nite-after severl attempts with other asian girls (my favorite) for # close, this one typed her email and then # into my blackberry.

I then told her i had to go- 15 min. later she's standing at the bathroom line with her friends and I walked over into the middle of them and said "okay girls-one at a time please!" they took a pic of me and the target together (that was a IOI from her friends!) i then grabbed my target and walked around the bend where we chatted more and then I went in for the kiss- I went in-she kissed back-I pulled away-she looked like what happened- i kissed- i told her she was a 7 on the "kiss scale" and that there was room for improvement! Went at it again-

So- now what???? She seemed to have a few drinks in her at the time- I used everything I had learned from all u guys up till that point-

Not sure what to do now... ask for a date? How long to wait to call her? Please let me know what u think...

Author:  Warden [ Sat May 05, 2007 1:35 pm ]
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Hello entry07,

What day are these dance nights? I was on the U-bahn lastnight and noticed huge flocks of people getting off... damn that's probably where they were going.

Advice: call her but make it a useless call, example: "Hey, do you know the name of the song that goes like... " or "Which cologne should I buy, cologne1 or cologne2". Then later invite her out, but with your friends, dates are high stress, if you casually invite her out with your friends you control everything, she's in your world.

Tchuss,
Warden

Author:  Entry07 [ Sat May 05, 2007 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  guggenheim

Hey Warden!

Thanks for reply! Yeah it was cool-its at the guggenheim but only the first Friday of every month starts at 9pm. It was my first time there and its quite unique cause its both a "club/dance" scene and an art gallery! Of course the enviroment is awesome! Lots of hot babes to practive game on and you can sneak away into the gallery and find little nooks in which to kino.

I felt a little funny about going out by myself but managed to get over it. I cant get over how well this particular set worked out-I cant believe it was me! I just kept playin stuff I read on here and the other sites. I still need a lot of work but this was extremely encouraging.

How long do u suggest waiting bedore calling?

This girl was making out with me in such a short time that I fear she might be feeling remorse (anit-slut sheild) and I will have to overcome more testing even after the solid kissing.

Author:  Warden [ Mon May 07, 2007 12:45 pm ]
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Hey Entry07,

If I were in your situation I'd wait maybe... a couple days, maybe the next friday be like "Hey, a couple friends and I are going to ______, blah blah whitty comment, blah blah", that entire drill.

Hope this helps,

Warden

Author:  Entry07 [ Mon May 07, 2007 4:01 pm ]
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Hey-

I wrote her a text: "Do you speak text?- Entry"

She wrote back at 12:30am this morning and just said "yes. i do." should i wait till Friday and say something like what you said or in the mean time write back something like: "thats good! that earns you 5 points-90 to go and I'm yours!"

What do u thnk?

Author:  Warden [ Mon May 07, 2007 4:21 pm ]
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Hey Entry07,

I'm gunna give you the good/bad in my view. Perfect, some bullshit comment like that is good, but you want to establish more of a rapport, try and stay away from the Yes/No answers.

To respond I would go with something like, "Thats unfortuate because I find that people who text are very untrustworthy." To which she'll fall into the trap of trying to prove herself to you. This increases your value, decreases hers.

Cheers,
Warden

Author:  Entry07 [ Mon May 07, 2007 7:56 pm ]
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Thats ballsy! And just might work-

Author:  Entry07 [ Mon May 07, 2007 11:46 pm ]
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I couldnt come up w anything better so i went with urs! I felt nervouse about sending it- like I was going to scare her away or something...
We'll see wat happs- Its all a learning experience!

I figure if she does write back(which basically if she does she's admitting to being untrustworthy and since Im texting her-well where does that put me?!) but if she does I'll say something I only talk to women who will meet somewhere AND pick up the tab!

Author:  Warden [ Tue May 08, 2007 7:21 am ]
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Hey Entry07,

Just remember, your not trying to "prove" yourself to her, you've already done that. It's her time to return the favor. That's not saying you can just sit back and do nothing, you have to remain interesting/funny blah blah.

Cheers,
Warden

P.S. Your in NYC :O, what about the gogenheim... or did you just recently travel... well whatever, once you can PM, send me one.

Author:  Entry07 [ Tue May 08, 2007 1:27 pm ]
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Hey Warden! check this out-

guggenheimDOTorg

There is a Dance party here once a month (I wish is was every day!), it was a lot of fun for me.

So-I sent off these text messages, havent heard back but I'm not "feelin" it. I sent an email to each girl I met over the weekend- 1 was the kiss # you know about ...I sent: do u spk text-she said-yes-i said how unfortunate...
And the 2nd I did an opinion opener in a clothing store and sent text: "your tastes in clothing isnt too bad- u get 2 points"!

I was hoping to get a "cat string" going with that one but havent heard back...

I'll just assume I wont hear back and take it as a learning experience (they were pretty cute tho!!!)

aNY THOUGHTS???

Author:  Warden [ Wed May 09, 2007 11:13 am ]
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Hey Entry07,

Most girls will take their time returning the msg because they don't want to appear ''slutty''. Whether they do return your msg or not, you shouldn't care... remember your the prize not them.

On the dance night note... ohhh I didn't know there was a guggenheim in NYC... I just know of the one in Berlin. So your not from Berlin??. If not, bah, I need a wing.

Cheers,
Warden

Author:  Entry1 [ Wed May 09, 2007 2:40 pm ]
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Yeah-it'd be cool if we could wing together!

On the girl note... I'll wait a week and call/text and then call it quits.

There was an hb8 in the supermarket last nite- i said "hey is this the carb section?" she laughed.. I kept walkin! still got some afc issues to work out! hehehe

Author:  Warden [ Thu May 10, 2007 7:03 am ]
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Ah, now we have the real entry, excellent :)

For some DHV things I suggest check out, "The Cube" routine and "5 questions", they are 2 of my favorites right now.

Cheers,
Warden

Author:  Entry1 [ Thu May 10, 2007 4:52 pm ]
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Yeah-finally got my login straightened out! I've read the cube-havent tried because it seems a bit complex until I can practice it. I've gotta check out 5 questions...

I did open a girl at starbux last nite w/ "can you take a sincere compliment? yeah, cool. Me too! OK, you first!" I felt I was a bit scripted but, she did compliment my jeans, I complimented her smile. I should have kept it more superficial like sandles or something...

Author:  Valence [ Thu May 10, 2007 5:48 pm ]
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"can you take a sincere compliment? yeah, cool. Me too! OK, you first!"

I like that, except after she compliments you, I would get a serious expression, wait for her to say something, and the tell her your still thinking for something to compliment.

At the last minute, mention one of these visable items,

Toes, socks, hair beret, belt

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