First off, I don't really care what happens with this one cuz I've got a couple other buns in the oven (I'm really starting to get the hang of this stuff!). But I think what I will describe below is a situation that I could have capitalized on but made a couple mistakes.
So, I was tutoring someone at a starbucks a few weeks ago, and I guess these three HBs next to me thought it was really adorable or something (I was talking with lots of gestures, loudly and confidently b/c, well, it's my job). They all wrote their numbers on an index card and put it in my backpack, so that made for a good morning present the next day!
Anyways, called one of them. Went through texting back and forth a couple times. A week or so later I get a call from one of them, and she's at a bar with one of the other ones, clearly drunk, and asks me to come. I couldn't so she said we should hang out another time and that was that.
Anyways, I sent her a text (I know I should have called, but I have been genuienly busy during the day the past couple weeks and texting is way easier for me) asking if she wanted to go out this friday or next thursday. I figured that might make me look busy and whatnot (which I am, but either way). She responds saying she's busy this weekend but maybe next week, and asks what I had in mind.
I reply the next day saying we should go to the comedy club then just go out to the bars afterward. A day or two later she replies saying sorry but she just started seeing someone, I'm flattered, blah blah.
I responded with something like, "Haha no sweat. I'm probably not what you're looking for anyway (freshly single)."
I figured she's either telling the truth, shit testing me, or just lost interest at some point (maybe cuz I didn't call?). I also figured my last response would either make me look like I wasn't really interested in a girl like her (the "can't have me" thing) or maybe came off as just looking for sex (oh well).
But whatever. Where did I make mistakes? What do you think is really going on? I'm basically just curious for the sake of improving my game more, which is what it's all about right?
