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Author:  ranger83 [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Bus Stop close , How to proceed

I approached a 3 set in the early morning time after club closed down (it was 5 o clock)

I tried to approach the whole group, but one of them kept talking to me the whole time. The discussion was intelligent, light , mostly about where we had been. There was no instance where I made her laugh as such, I went for complete intrigue.

In the end when she had to go I asked for her contact, she said she can give me her email, I asked that she give me her number instead. I got the number. There was a definite mutual attraction.

The question is, how should I proceed. Since I went for being the intriguing one, I don't have any fun material to latch on to.

It will probably not be a good idea to text her i suppose, I need to draw her into more conversation , but should I ask her out on a coffee directly or call and talk a few times before that. And when should I ideally call (I am typing this 9 hours after I got her digits)

Author:  ranger83 [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 9:22 pm ]
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ok, not that I am counting on your comments or any thing, but seriously..no comments

guys throw me a bone here.

I called her today and got the machine (it was off) so left her a txt saying what's the best time to catch her on phone (which i now realize was probably not a good move)

Author:  Mithos [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 9:21 pm ]
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ok, not that I am counting on your comments or any thing, but seriously..no comments

guys throw me a bone here.

I called her today and got the machine (it was off) so left her a txt saying what's the best time to catch her on phone (which i now realize was probably not a good move)
It wasnt a bad move really. Just make sure she knows that it was you who sent the text and wait for her to reply. Dont call her again.

Author:  ranger83 [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:18 am ]
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Yeah well I did call her again today, this time it was not picked up

So no reply to text, no phone pickup, and its been 4 days sice i got the first encounter, so i have gutted the number and moving on now

Author:  Emm [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 10:03 am ]
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im getting a number of a chick tmoro who goes to a busstop outside my work. she hasnt seen me yet, so no drama's there, and the only reason ive stalled is she's always on the fkn phone...god i hate phones.
she looks like the closest thing to Beyonce ive seen (im a white boy, and have a serious thing for those booty chicks).
wish me more luck than you!!

Author:  de_viant [ Wed Dec 03, 2008 1:20 pm ]
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Its probably best to leave it for a while - remeber you're the prize and shouldn't come across as desperate/needy.
The intrigue obviously built up her attraction but without anything fun her comfort levels probably aren't high enough for a full on phonecall yet.
Try not to get hung up on her and then you can just text her in a week or so - maybe use one of the texts from the 'List of Text Messages Game' thread
list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html
If you don't get a reply just leave it and sarge on.
Hope it goes well man.

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