Hi Guys,
I'm new here, but I've been around as a PUA for a while. I'm maintaining a healthy sex-life as it is, and I think myself a pretty decent PUA.
Still, I'm not sure what to think about something that just occurred. I just don't understand... I would very much like your perspective.
Quicky-factsheet about me:
20 y/o, student in The Netherlands, social, open minded.
The case:
A few weeks back I was at at a studentparty for my studies. A few girls in my workgroup had asked me to come, so I decided to check it out. I went there alone, and when I got in, I immediately got attention of some of the girls.
It was an absurd evening in every aspect. Because I had gotten a bit more serious with another girl I was dating I couldn't really do anything besides party.. A HB9,HB8 and another HB8 kept buying me drinks, pooring their beers into my glass, flirting with me, touching etc.
Until at one point the HB9 and 8 who were dancing with me, pushed me into a corner and asked me if I wanted to kiss them both simultanuously.. :O. I said that I was flattered, but that it didn't sound like a good idea to me.. (how the hell does one kiss 2 girls at the same time anyway?). And I told them I was seeing someone, which, at the time I was. They talked to me for a little while longer to get me to agree anyway, but I didn't do it.
When I told the other HB8 I had to go home soon (work the next morning), she said: nooo, you stay! you can sleep at my place! Again I told her blabla girlfriend, blabla. She insisted anyway.. I ended up making out with her just before going home (ok, that might make me an asshole, but after such a night and all that beer...).
I enjoyed that, and at a party a week or so later, we made out again. And she asked about my GF, who I broke up with (it wasnt going anywhere anyway..)
Ok so im reaching the conclusion of my story, hang on
Tonight we had a 'nintendo-night' planned at my place (me, the HB8, a HB7.5 and a HB6.5). I had foreseen that the HB6.5 wouldnt be able to make it, and I wasnt surprised the 7.5 wasnt going to make it either.
I talked to the HB8 about it and we agreed we didnt like how the other 2 had bailed. I spoke to her on the phone and told her she should still come over. She made a few subtle references to staying at my place, so I reckoned the cat was in the bag.. (also considering what had already happened between us)..
She told me she would phone me back about it, that she was trying to still get in touch with the 6.5.
I waited. no callback. called her, no response. WTH?
so I reckoned she had wasted her opportunity of having dinner with me, I ate dinner.
Now she is talking to me on msn, telling me she feels like an idiot because she fell asleep ( "
:(:(:(:(:(:(" ). And that the HB6.5 called her, that she had forgotten (no shit) and that we should really plan another time. I told her that they would be cooking for me instead, because they had something to make up. She is telling me now, that she would arrange the dessert in that case (???). Again making subtle references to liking me and whatnot. What is wrong with her. All talk and no action or ?
My issue:
What the hell? she obviously didnt fall asleep (or?). but why the change of mind, why invite me to her place, and then later act like this?
Any idea guys?
I feel i can still F-close her, maybe she was just not comfortable right now, idk.
????
