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Author:  callmecaptain [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  Number closed an HB7 in physics - help me follow up
I can't believe how many Hbs there are at my school. This is sick. I met another hb7 in my physics class today. Here's how it went down:

I walk in and notice her. There's a seat open next to her. I sit down and say what's up. We talk a bit. I neg her, she gives me IOI by introducing herself to me and asking for my name. I DHV by explaining to her how to solve one of the problems on the hw. We decided to be lab partners for the day. Within 5 minutes we've decided to be partners for the semester. I tell her to give me her number by writing it down on my notebook. She does.

This is great. I've only slept 2 hours, i don't look my best, and I'm not even sure if I'm making sense, but somehow i managed to number close an HB7.

So here's my deal. I'm planning on texting her sometime later tonight and just fliriting a bit - no goal in mind other than to get me into her subconcious.

I have a tenative game plan but it's dynamic. The idea is to be vague and opportunistic incorporating negs and establishing HV.

If any of you have any specific ideas or suggestions on where to take this I'd really appreciate it. Closing and day 2's are my sticking points. Where should I take her? What should we do? What's worked for you in similar situations?

Thanks in advance!


CPT
Author:  Head First [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 1:58 am ]
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dont text her tonight dont say shit.. your going to see her through out the school year.. I cant blame you for wanting to text her.. your like a kid on xmas who cant wait to play with his new toy, im the same way... But just think about this what if you text her and she dont say ae thing back. How odd is it going to be the next time you see her in class.. she HV by not saying NE THING!!!
Author:  callmecaptain [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 5:00 am ]
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Here's irony. The second after I send her a message, i get an email notifying me of this post...well too late.

So here's what i sent her:

"Omg, stop stalking me"

She didn't reply. I left it at that. Then today she texts me asking how to do a certain problem on one of our assignments. I answer really briefly "assume the eagle is flying 1m/s. You can call me if you don't understand". She sends a text back saying "ok I'll try it out and if i don't get it I'll call you. Thanks" I don't reply back.

That's the extent of the conversation we've had.

From the sound of it I definately follow up too soon, but i think it's salvagable. I'm planning on just not contacting her or putting any effort into it unless she does. That way she can't be certain that I'm interested. I'll also neg her next time i see her about not having a sense of humor. Say something like "Hey joke not getter".

Anyway, let me know how any of you might handle a situation like this. It's still got potential for sure because the IOIs she gave me in class the other day were pretty blatent.

CPT
Author:  Blues [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 10:24 pm ]
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Slow down your game tenfold, man -- you basically have guaranteed contact with her five days a week (assuming you're in high school) for the rest of the semester.

You should have waited a while long to text her, but it's cool, it's pretty insignificant.

Don't fall into the trap of supplicating her with homework help. Most of the time I try to avoid helping with schoolwork at all, and instead recruit the help of the nerdy kid. You want her talking to you because she likes you, not because she wants your help on homework.

So next time she texts you asking for your help wait a few minutes and say that you've been busy all day doing ___ and haven't gotten a chance to do it yet. Then just DHV yourself with what you were doing the next day.

Sounds like you're doing great though, man -- keep it up. Just be careful, because supplicating with homework help all the time is a very easy way to fall into the LJBF zone.
Author:  dronten [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 4:49 am ]
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Good advice from Blues. I'd just like to say that I would have waited a couple of hours before replying to the next "homework message" instead of just a few minutes... be sure she understands that you won't always be instantly reachable.

I'm also convinced that you still have a chance with this girl... :) Just calm down and take it easy and everything will work out. Try to adopt more of an "while I enjoy teasing/flirting with you, I don't give a fuck about whether you like me or not" kind of attitude... at least in your own mind. Otherwise it's all to easy to come off as needy or "trying to hard". :(
Author:  Risen [ Tue Sep 02, 2008 5:43 am ]
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Im with the other 2 guys above. Im in college as well trying to start up some good college-game, but in your situation I would try not to end up as the "homework partner" and thats it lol. I mean you could help her with her hw if shes retarded but at least make her give you something in return. You can make it into something cocky-funny like "ill help you out with this physics problem if you treat me to a nice cup of coffee :)" Play around and try new stuff, dont be afraid of messing up...i'll try to do the same lol. Good luck and let me know how your college game goes and ill do the same.
Author:  Deal Me [ Thu Sep 04, 2008 5:27 pm ]
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They are right about slowing it down. This HB already commited to seeing you for the rest of the semester so you should of just left it at that for now. Throughout the year you shouldve build comfort with her while negging, then when the time is right invite her to go out.
Author:  chilllin [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 4:51 am ]
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not sure where the situation is at but if you are looking for some kid of test to see if she is interested dont sit by her for the class and make yourself easily accessable after class and see if she will come up. Take it from there...
Author:  callmecaptain [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 5:47 am ]
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I'm pretty confused by this girl still.

Last week after class we both walked to our cars together. We talked about snowboarding and Whistler and a bunch of stuff. She seemed really interested. I gave her crap for not sitting next to me in the lecture class (she only sits next to me in the lab).

The next day she came and sat next to me in my lecture class. It was cool because another HB (which i number closed today) was sitting next to me, so she ended up having to compete for my attention a bit.

As class was ending I asked her what she had going on this weekend. She said she had work and some hw but that's about it. I told her "well i'll send you a text and if you're not too busy being a workaholic we can find something to do". She said okay but with the disclaimer "If i don't see you this weekend have a good one".

That was last friday. I shot her a text on Saturday.

My plan was to say this:

Me: Stop
Her: Stop what?
Me: Thinking about me and smiling

I sent her the "Stop" Message. She didn't reply...Wierd

So i didn't contact her after that. I saw her in class yesterday and we sat together and worked on a lab together, but i pretty much treated her like a dude. I did not acknowledge in any way that i want anythign sexual from her whatsoever.

I haven't contacted her since. I feel like she has some deep secret that prevents her from getting close to other guys. She seems really interested but super hesitant.

I've kind of given up on her. She's not hot or interesting enough to be worth all this time investment. The HB that i number closed today is a little more promising. She already agreed taht we should get together and study for the upcoming test. I give her crap all the time and we spend most of class going back and forth flirting.

I'll see how it goes, but for the girl i was focusing on before - I don't think it's going anywhere.

Thanks for your input all. I definately appreciate it

CPT
Author:  Stetson [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 9:56 am ]
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AAaaaaaagghhhhhh!

All these guys saying things like "You shouldn't have texted her yet!" SHUT UP. It doesn't matter what you do and when you do as long as your frame stays up.
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So i didn't contact her after that. I saw her in class yesterday and we sat together and worked on a lab together, but i pretty much treated her like a dude. I did not acknowledge in any way that i want anythign sexual from her whatsoever.
Heres where you went broken hardcore. You had been her intellectual chump for some time already and here you sealed the deal. You show no sexual interest in her and speak friend talk with her at the same time you help her in schoolwork, thats the best motorway to hell. Hell called LJBF-land.

Oh yeah, and those IOI's are probably fake ones just to get you help her. You are her intellectual chump, right? :lol:
Quote:
Me: Stop
Her: Stop what?
Me: Thinking about me and smiling
Make the stop message a little bit more interesting. Like STOOOOPPP!!!!!!!, and now if that doesn't work...

STOOOOPPP!!!!!!! YOU FUCKING CUNT!

Just kidding here :lol:.

You could always try the impossible and press the reset button on her... Or just game over.
Author:  callmecaptain [ Sat Sep 13, 2008 6:22 pm ]
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Heres where you went broken hardcore. You had been her intellectual chump for some time already and here you sealed the deal. You show no sexual interest in her and speak friend talk with her at the same time you help her in schoolwork, thats the best motorway to hell
Nah, it wasn't like that. I just kind of ignored her. Me and the other group members worked on the project and everytime she asked a question i just gave her a one word answer without looking at her. It was kind of like her presence was extra and uneccesary. There was no LJBF talk happening and I haven't helped her with anything physics related since that first time she texted me.

I'm serious though, something's off about this one. I number closed 2 girls yesterday and I'm working on understanding this other girl I number closed earlier in the week. I put up a post called Boyfriend girl. It's just how it sounds..

At the moment my strategy is just a shotgun method on any girl that's HB7+. My frame is that if they don't get it, it's thier problem :0

CPT
Author:  Stetson [ Sun Sep 14, 2008 12:57 pm ]
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"well i'll send you a text and if you're not too busy being a workaholic we can find something to do"
I felt like I should post something intelligent... Don't say like that, it sounds like if SHES NOT BUSY, you should say that if I'M NOT TOO BUSY.

That text you sent means basically:

If your not too busy, maybe I could join your reality for a moment and entertain you.
Author:  Prolific [ Sun Sep 14, 2008 5:57 pm ]
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your situation is ironic capt. in that i am experiencing very similiar things in my english class. My first target, like yours, confused the shit out of me and was a dud. I moved seats in the class to get close to another HB, number closed, called her yesterday, left a message, no call back. The good thing for our situations is that we have the rest of this semester to DHV, neg, and string theory these bitches to death until they are asking when they can comeover. I appreciate you posting your findings after taking other PUA's advice because it is helping me out too.
Keep it up brotha 8)
Author:  Coolcat21 [ Mon Sep 22, 2008 2:54 am ]
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Well it sounds liek you are doing good to forget about here and move on!
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