Ok, I appreciate all the people here giving advice and everything, but seriously, I'm getting all this conflicting advice that I'm thinking of fucking everything and just going through with the day 2.
On the one side, Adam Lyons, a prominent PUA, advocates doing an activity for the first date where you can kino, have fun, and not have so much pressure to have some sort of interesting, wacky conversation for hours.
Then there are other people in the forum like Xargon, whose posts I appreciate, that say that you should go out to a coffee shop and have some sort of interesting conversation and get to know her better.
Maybe both? Activity and then coffee shop?
Furthermore, there are others who say you must go out during the night and others who state that going out during the day is all right.
Why not have a date that begins in the day and ends at night?
Also, one person says the first date should be where you give the girl space and let her get comfortable, and another says you MUST k-close on the first date. So.... I'm horribly confused.
Maybe the issue is more situational and more of depends on the girl and her history?
All I was thinking of for the first date was going out rock climbing during the day but now I'm not sure if that's a good idea...
I hate to cry for help but... HELP!!!
