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Author:  kiwi-indian [ Mon Apr 21, 2008 10:12 am ]
Post subject:  My sticking point - following up after number closing
Ok, I've had a number of successful number closes. I have got some number closes using good game and some I've just got through luck. My sticking point however is following up after a number close.

I usually give it a couple of days before I contact the girl. I do this in order not to appear to keen. However whenever I've called I've almost always got voicemail and I've left a message. I haven't heard back. Same with texts. I've sent texts and most of the time I get at least one response back and then I don't hear anything again.

I find this odd as I've run good game normally and most recent number close I ran some very solid game (as far as I could tell). I followed up with a text a couple of days later but have not heard anything back.

Don't know what to do. :-(
Author:  snoitcu [ Mon Apr 21, 2008 4:36 pm ]
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If you're getting flakes, step up your game and build more attraction during the night. If you do that, the girls you get numbers from will be excited to see you later on.

1. Have strong tight game and build attraction all night
2. Number close
3. Text her that night with something funny memorable about the night
4. Call her the next day to set something up later in the week

Calling early shows that you're interested in her and can keep the momentum going from the first night. I've actually read that it's best to set up a first date while interacting with a girl for the first time (assuming you build enough attraction for her to want that)

This is a sticking point of mine too. One opener when you call her for the first time afterwards is to be like:

you: hey, I'm [insert name], we met last night, do you remember me
her: of course
you: ok good. you passed the first test
her: giggles

It's cheesy but it really breaks the ice. For me, it's soo hard to call a girl up the day after, but saying shit like this really eases the tension. And also, I'd stay away from leaving messages myself. I don't have any scientific backing behind this, but it seems when you leave a message, it sort of puts the ball in her court.

Good luck bro
Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Sun Apr 27, 2008 6:03 am ]
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From experience, let me first tell you that when i was beginning PUA, i would get about five number closes when i went out to the mall or on average one between daily tasks like grocery store, gas station, etc. The problem remained getting dates that weren't flakes.
The biggest problem was that i was gaming to number-close, and not gaming to build attraction. I try to change that now by going on a "right-now" date. Change venue to starbucks or ice cream shop. "Hey, lets go grab some ice cream" works great in a mall. Mystery says a solid number close lasts 20 minutes.

I prefer to text the day after. She can check it whenever if she's busy, and i can check it whenever when i'm busy myself.
"Hey it's Xargon from xxx yesterday. Miss me yet? Where are you taking me this weekend"
The only exception is if you met her online. You should call.

Interestingly, i never read Mystery or Style using texts. Anybody have more info about that? From what i've read, they call the day after or on Monday after the weekend.

My call routine:
Hey it's Xargon. Is [girl-name] in?
yeah
Ok you would NOT believe what happened to me today! So my cousin texted me today, you actually kind of look like her, she actually kind of reminds me of you, except she's like, super-model hot. So she texts me from victoria secret, asking, what would you like to see me wear next time i see you? Now i'm looking at it, thiking to myself, wtf?? I don't want to tell my mom, i don't want to tell her parents. I don't know what to do!
blah blah
talk fluff. after 5 to 15 minutes set up meeting.


So, um, what do i do if my dates google tihs post and start reading it over the phone to me???
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