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Dropped her off the next morning. 2 days of no contact, and I noticed she deleted her account on the app we had met.
Normal.
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Called her last night, she sounded excited to talk to me.
This is where I totally go against "the phone call". It's too much investment this early, and intrusive. And it's a great way to talk a woman out of hanging with you.
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I think I know my mistake, which was chatting and talking for 10 minutes or so before I said to see each other tonight. She said she was busy with work and that she has an appointment for skin care after work. I insisted a little bit asking a few times (second mistake) and finally said ok, some other time and said bye.
Your phone call was a disaster.
This is why I advise against phone calls for men who have trouble controlling their emotions (as you do). What happens is men let their emotions control them, in this case your complete fear of rejection. So you get caught in an anxiety loop and repeat yourself (insisting she meet you out repeatedly, which is needy behavior).
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Now, I think I know the 2 mistakes I made, and I think I should have waited for her to contact me.
So, what do you guys think and recommend I do at this point? Should I just wait for her to contact me? And in case she doesnt, when and how should I contact her again?
Thanks in advance.
Wait for her to text you back. And stop using phone calls with women, you have not trained yourself to control your emotions yet.
As I advised half a dozen times before, take a sticky note and tape it to your phone after writing this on it:
"Is this a negative emotion? Am I texting too much?"
Instead of the phone call, you should've sent this:
"Hey, It's Netflix and drinks tomorrow night. Come by when you're free."
I just got a "thank you" PM from a guy who used that exact line after my advice, and it rescued him from a bad date.