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Author:  loscofiguro [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 9:12 am ]
Post subject:  Contact a second time before give up
Hello everyone,
it's my first post here.

This Saturday I met a beautiful girl. There was some eye contact in the beginning, than I approached her, I played a good game: I changed the club, turned her on (in the beginning was quite cold); at the best moment of the night I asked her the number telling her that she would be contacted by me (there was a playful joke before, when she asked me my facebook, and I told her "no! You just want see my pictures").

I left the club at the best moment, just before the SPAM start to be less interesting and everyone get tired. She was kiss ready, but I didn't go for the kiss to let her want more (I usually don't do this, but last time it worked really well).

I texted her immediatly to give her my number.

The day after she answered me with a smile; so, after few hours I texed her, something funny, and after few lines of text exchange I invited for a rappelling activity the day after (okay, maybe it was abit extreme XD ).
Her answer was: "It's cool, but it's not the best momente for me" which it sounds like a flake for me.

So I just tell her, "Okay, I'm going to share the picture of last night with you" and than just "have a nice day.

In the last period I'm just giving up at the first date decline, but this was quite interesting for me (come on, she was dressed like catwoman!). Should I wait a week and then call her directly or maybe just give her a ping text and after her answer streight call her?

Thank you guys, I really appreciate the SPAM of this forum!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 2:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
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She was kiss ready, but I didn't go for the kiss to let her want more
Or did you chicken out?
Author:  loscofiguro [ Thu Nov 03, 2016 3:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
Quote:
Quote:
She was kiss ready, but I didn't go for the kiss to let her want more


Or did you chicken out?

Nah, it was planned. Usually I don't have problem to go for a kiss and also in this situation I was quite relaxed and in my comfort zone.
Of course I'm not saying that it was not a mistake, probably it was just the wrong strategy in this situation.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 8:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
Quote:
Of course I'm not saying that it was not a mistake, probably it was just the wrong strategy in this situation.
It was the wrong strategy in any situation. Ever.
Author:  loscofiguro [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 8:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
Okay, understood.

But about the real question: Should I wait a week and then call her directly or maybe just give her a ping text and after her answer straight call her? ...or just next?
Author:  R.C [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 10:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
Let it go.

Next time if you're in a club, the number is not the goal. Getting intimate is. Don't downplay yourself.
Author:  itchybrother [ Fri Nov 04, 2016 11:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
She declined your invitation, and then you sent a pic of last night. In her mind, she said no...and then the pic seemed like begging. Points lost.

A decline is a decline. Just accept it with a "ahh that breaks my heart you won't go. Maybe next time huh."

The ball is now in your court. You have the "next time" card to play still.
Author:  loscofiguro [ Sat Nov 05, 2016 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Contact a second time before give up
Thank you for the replyes! I'll do better next time! ;)
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