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| Author: | Mikeyusername [ Tue Oct 11, 2016 8:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Difficulty getting the kill |
I've been having some major difficulty getting the kill since I ended my LTR. I've been out probably 20+ times since then and get at least one number a night and a make out with at least one girl. These girls usually text me back, sometimes we go on dates, but what I find is the tempo completely shifts after the night. I read a post where someone was saying 'lay or leave it' meaning don't even take the number until after you lay. Could this work to my advantage (showing confidence, or is this sleazy?) My question is how should I be utilizing my night time success? And how can I utilize all these numbers after the night? I go to various different places; clubs, bars and street patios. I mention this because I assume that different environments tend to be treated slightly differently. Its starting to bother me and I realize I need to change something. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 10:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Difficulty getting the kill |
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I read a post where someone was saying 'lay or leave it' meaning don't even take the number until after you lay. Could this work to my advantage (showing confidence, or is this sleazy?)
The logic behind that is that numbers from clubs/parties are useless. Most girls won't even remember who you are in the morning. Unless they wake up in your bed, in which case feel free to ask for digits. Quote: My question is how should I be utilizing my night time success? And how can I utilize all these numbers after the night?
Nighttime environments are high energy and dynamic. You can get sexual very fast, and getting sexual with a girl is a few steps above getting her contact info on the seduction ladder. Settling, or even worse, aiming for said info is quite literally going backwards. That said you haven't really been successful. Either way, don't have unrealistic expectations out of night game. ONS? Sure. Fuck buddies? Maybe. Dating? Not so much. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Oct 12, 2016 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Difficulty getting the kill |
My question would be, why are you NOT trying to pull same night lays? Do you think you will be seen in a better light by not pushing for sex? A good boy? A nice guy? Nope. Women. They want dick. Same night dick. That's why they are there. It's not even about sex as much as it is about ATTENTION. It's like meth to them, they crave it! So when you stop escalating you stop feeding them attention. A real buzz kill. That is why they hardly even remember who the fuck you are the next day. You stopped meeting her need. (Forum secret) Shhhh |
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| Author: | Mikeyusername [ Fri Oct 14, 2016 1:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Difficulty getting the kill |
Quote: My question would be, why are you NOT trying to pull same night lays? Do you think you will be seen in a better light by not pushing for sex? A good boy? A nice guy?
Mind blown...Nope. Women. They want dick. Same night dick. That's why they are there. It's not even about sex as much as it is about ATTENTION. It's like meth to them, they crave it! So when you stop escalating you stop feeding them attention. A real buzz kill. That is why they hardly even remember who the fuck you are the next day. You stopped meeting her need. (Forum secret) Shhhh I think you captured it perfectly. I should look for some ways that escalates the situation |
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