PUA Forum :: Closed a day 2, need advice

Captin' Save A Hoe, You can't turn a hoe into a house wife - Became terms for a reason.

Don't let a flux of hormones being pumped into your system via intimacy with a women delude you into disregarding logic.

Are you choosing this women because you want her, or is she just the best you have available at the moment? On the flip side, does she really want you, or are you just one of the semi decent guys that would ever consider her for something beyond a FWB Relationship? How do you think her career path is going to influence her ability to function in a healthy happy relationship? Nothing is impossible, but when making a education decision you want to go with the one that has the highest probability for success. You can do better man. Just because you known someone before they became a serial murder doesn't mean you should trust them with your children after the fact. How would you feel if you had a daughter become an escort? Would you approve? Well if things get serious enough, this is the very influence that will be surrounding your potential daughter.

You're obviously posting this here for a reason. You just want someone to tell you that "its ok" so you can feel comfortable moving forward. No one can tell you what to do, but lets be serious...What exactly can this woman provide for you that an attractive, mentally stable woman that is not an escort can not?

Author:	Colorado710 [ Tue Oct 04, 2016 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Closed a day 2, need advice
Colorado710↓ Closed a "day 2" need advice Tue Oct 04, 2016 9:59 pm So I met this girl a while ago and she rejected me. 6 months later I meet her and we remain friends because I was too beta to try anything or escalate. I asked her out and the first time we went out it was good but not good enough. I whimped out. So I asked her on a day 2 and as Soon as I saw her I went for a kiss, she gave me the cheek and I said "nice was to ruin the moment." She laughed and we held hands. She told me my persistence won her over and so did my way with words. as the night was closing I pulled her back and we were in my room and I was thinking of how do I fuck her. Mind you I'm new at this. She said she had to leave and I again pressed to stay and watch a movie but she said she had to leave so I let her go. I think it's cause I wasn't free from outcome. But anyways I walked her out and we made out. Now how long should I wait to hit her up again, and how can I escalate and close more efficiently? Any tips? Btw I think it's important to note she pulled out money when the tab came and offered to pay. I've never gone out with a girl this hot. She is literally a 10 and we get along really well on a intellectual level. Thanks for any advice

Author:	R.C [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 1:23 pm ]
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Quote: So I asked her on a day 2 and as Soon as I saw her I went for a kiss, she gave me the cheek and I said "nice way to ruin the moment." I love the way you handled it, but don't try kissing women out of the blue like that man. When a date begins, it can be a bit awkward. And when a date ends it can be even more awkward and pressuring, because that's when most guys think it's a good idea to finally bust a move out. She knows exactly what's up, and it's just not a good overall feeling. In reality both scenarios are pretty awful. If you want it to flow smoothly, do it during the date. At a highpoint, when you're having the most fun/feeling the most connected. Lead up to it, get in closer, look at her more intensely. She'll feel the tension rising and will welcome it because it's in the right emotional context. It's a natural followup as opposed to letting things cool off and then trying to abruptly pick them up again. That's how you escalate and close successfully. Same applies when she's at your place. Let her get comfortable with the apartment, have a drink laying around and offer a glass, show her cat videos on youtube or whatever and get closer. The movie is just as clichee as the end-of-date kiss. It's pressuring and overused as fuck. Regarding how long to wait, you should wait however long you want.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 1:25 pm ]
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Just keep pushing the envelope. Get her in your room again.

Author:	Colorado710 [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Closed a day 2, need advice
I initially made the decision to kiss her as soon as I saw her because I just wanted that "barrier" to be broken. We had hung out before and I never escalated which made me think I need to do this so she can see I have balls. Luckily everything panned out I just feel like I wasn't free from intent. I'm going to see her tonight, should I wait for the tention to build before kissing her again? They say a girl can tell a lot by a guys kiss so should I be looking for any signs?? Thanks

Author:	R.C [ Wed Oct 05, 2016 2:36 pm ]
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You should not "wait for tension to build". You should build tension yourself. Be chill and have fun with it.

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Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Closed a day 2, need advice
Quote: Greet her with a kiss again. Edit. Just pay her like everyone else.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 6:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Closed a day 2, need advice
A double post about the same girl while leaving out that she's an escort on this post? I'll repost the same advice. Quote: Captin' Save A Hoe, You can't turn a hoe into a house wife - Became terms for a reason. Don't let a flux of hormones being pumped into your system via intimacy with a women delude you into disregarding logic. Are you choosing this women because you want her, or is she just the best you have available at the moment? On the flip side, does she really want you, or are you just one of the semi decent guys that would ever consider her for something beyond a FWB Relationship? How do you think her career path is going to influence her ability to function in a healthy happy relationship? Nothing is impossible, but when making a education decision you want to go with the one that has the highest probability for success. You can do better man. Just because you known someone before they became a serial murder doesn't mean you should trust them with your children after the fact. How would you feel if you had a daughter become an escort? Would you approve? Well if things get serious enough, this is the very influence that will be surrounding your potential daughter. You're obviously posting this here for a reason. You just want someone to tell you that "its ok" so you can feel comfortable moving forward. No one can tell you what to do, but lets be serious...What exactly can this woman provide for you that an attractive, mentally stable woman that is not an escort can not?

Author:	R.C [ Thu Oct 06, 2016 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Closed a day 2, need advice
I hate it when you fuckers waste my time. If you want fucking relevant advice post fucking relevant details. For fucks sake, a situation will not change in real life simply because you leave out critical info.

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