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| Author: | SkippyASW [ Wed Sep 07, 2016 1:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 1st date goes great then things fade |
I started texting with this 8-9HB on Tinder and turns out she was from the same town where i grew up. We moved to FB, talked for a few days then met. 1st date on last friday went great with heavy make-outs, but no F-close cause i was even tired and didnt push it, so we parted ways in the parking lot in front of her place. Even told me to call her when get home which i did for another 15mins. Thing is, the next days we flirted some more, but she didnt seem thaaaat responsive and it was me who initiated everything. During the date she mentioned that doesnt meet guys off from FB, but me being from the same home city and had a great sense of humour she became very curious. And the whole date was fuckin impecable! I mean, seriously, one of the best ever i had. Basically didnt even had to do shit, she being all over me from the moment i put my hand around her shoulder and kissing from the first 10mins! But i dunno, i was out of town for 2 days and texts arent that flirty now, plus she doesnt invest much... And started posting on FB this pics with texts like being dissapointed from love, good girls do bad things etc, so am thinking that she was maybe seeing other guys and got burnt recently... Dunno if i should wait for 2-3 days and see if she initiates anything or maybe call... but i feel like am forcing stuff and she isnt into it... How is a situation like this supposed to be revived. Has maybe the attraction expired or something...!? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 07, 2016 2:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Get her to your place for drinks. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Wed Sep 07, 2016 2:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
When a girl hasn't met you, she may be into texting because it's a way to get to know you. Once you meet, texting isn't anywhere near as exciting as being around you in person. So yes, after a date there are women that tend to text and flirt less over text but it doesn't necessarily mean disinterest. Now to your mistake. You were too tired for sex? Come on man! There's only one reason to be too tired for sex and that's because you just finished having sex with that same girl. If the date was going as great as you say and she was open to the idea of sex, then you've disappointed her and what you perceived as a great date was a let down in her eyes. I doubt that all is lost, but you can't sit around wanting to text. Get her to your place or you to hers. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Thu Sep 08, 2016 7:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Too tired for sex.. |
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| Author: | SkippyASW [ Fri Sep 09, 2016 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Follow up. I called her on Wednesday, flirted a bit then proposed to meet up at my place for pancakes on Thursday, said she cant cause has these appointments at hairstylist and we decided to talk on Friday and set this up. Surprise or not, called today, but didnt pick up even though i can see she's online on FB  .Probably its a good idea to let it go and let her initiate. Though slight chances... I also have this blonde that is closer to me and available this weekend. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 09, 2016 4:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Quote: I called her on Wednesday, flirted a bit then proposed to meet up at my place for pancakes on Thursday,
If she's eating pancakes at my place on Thursday, it's BECAUSE she came over Wednesday.
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| Author: | SkippyASW [ Fri Sep 09, 2016 5:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
She just called me. "I am too tired for this tonight. Lets meet tomorrow." Should i even call tomorrow?! Cause i sure as hell dont usually, but from what we've talked she's still into me. |
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| Author: | HT23VWY67 [ Fri Sep 09, 2016 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Call her the day after. And act like you don't care. |
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| Author: | Crawford456 [ Mon Nov 14, 2016 3:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 1st date goes great then things fade |
Any update on this? Same thing happened to me, but the girl rejected me 3 days after a great first date lol. |
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