Hi everyone,
I have been living in Germany since 4 years and been day gaming almost 6 months..I still have a language barrier but it all work pretty fine, so i can roughly guarranty you guys that body language is the most important thing when talking to girls
So, i will get to the point... I approached this hot girl at a shopping mall, 5 minutes of interaction, got her number (she wrote her number on my palm since my battery had died
), texted her "it was a pleasure, My Name", but she didn´t reply. Next day in the afternoon i texted her "I assume you have been kidnapped since you don´t text back, if you need help, press 1". She loled, we exchanged a couple of puns, set the date then i went silent for ~ a day. I texted her the day before the date to confirm it, so it was confirmed. (It was agreed that we will meet up in a small town since it is close to where i work and she lives there).
The Date: She sent long text to me 2 h ago prior to date and told "I can´t make on time since I am still driving but if you can wait an extra 1.5h i can def. meet you " I was like WTF
1.5h, really !?! hahaha. Then i texted back "hey no worries. but i can´t wait that long since I have to take my train back home. And if you are still late, since you are on the road, that will cost me another 1.5h" Then she said "ok fine, we will have to postone this for some other time", and I didn´t respond. An hour later she texted again telling that "On the second thought, I might come to your town, since I have my car parked there. I want to say Hi to a friend whom I didn´t see for ages and maybe we might run into each other " (All the locations I mention in this post are 1 hour close to each other). And she came The date was all good. Jokes, touching flirting was all there. I was with her only 1.5h since I had to go a B-day. She walked to the bus station with me I gave a firm kiss on the cheek while grabing her waist. Then I left. (She also mentioned the text I sent her about kidnapping and told she found it very cool). And yeah I didn´t set another day for the second date.
She came to my town again for the second date. We had dinner, changed the venue to a bar and had a drink. Before she left, I kiss closed her. Then we walked to her car. After the last cigarettes we kissed again, then she drove away. After an hour or so she texted me and told I should send the photo of us I took. I did so. And that was it for the night.
The next day i texted her "Good Morning
" but it took her for 8 hours to text a waving hand smiley (!?!?). I didn´t write her back. After 2 hours later she sent our pic editted and said Happy Valentines Day and I wrote back "I miss your lips" And gave our interaction a two day pause, since she didn´t respond back with what I wanted.After two days I asked her if she wanted to catch up but she said "Sorry, i am planned on that day since I am invited to a party" and asked if I am doing good. I said that I am good asked her how she is and told her to have great time at the party.
Then another 3 days of silence. After that I asked her if she wanted to go climbing. I know she would be pretty enthusiastic for such an offer since she had complained about she can´t find a partner to climb on the last date. Her response was "I might go
" But her text came 4h after my text. The lines we exchanged after that was:Me: You don´t like me
Her: What makes you think so ?
Me: You don´t text me if I don´t text you. I think you are not that much into me as I am into you.
Her: Ok, I will be honest with you...My last relationship has broke into pieces a short while ago and it was painful for me. I liked meeting you, it was fun and you are a stunner. However, I can´t image letting myself into some thing new. That became clear to me in the last days. We appearantly met each other during the wrong time (or too early). I didn´t want to raise your hopes..That´s why went a little silent. I can only offer you a friendship and if that is enough for you I am up for climbing:)
Me: I appreciate your honesty, but I don´t want to accept your offer..Take care:)
Her: I can understand that, it was a pleasure to meet you, and take care..
Her: I appreciate your honesty as well..You are cute:) Take care...
I didn´t write back anything to her since that day (since 3 days)
I moved on, I also met another girl yesterday, who is also hot
But what bothers me here is that this is the 3rd time that something like this happening to me. And I wonder why..?? I was pretty sure I was gonna f-close her on the third date but missed her and don´t know why..Comments, advice much appreciated Cheers, Lavainfield