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| Author: | winnar00 [ Sat Feb 20, 2016 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Strange One |
please delete |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Feb 20, 2016 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Strange One |
It's time to let this one go. Here's what I think happened to you. You took 3 dates to build up to the first kiss, sick or not. When things go that way, women go from being excited about you to "let's just see where this goes." Without the excitement that kiss was worthless. Get it into your head...if you don't at least kiss a girl on the first date, you're setting yourself up for failure. |
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| Author: | winnar00 [ Sat Feb 20, 2016 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Strange One |
Quote: It's time to let this one go.
yeah gotta agree with you there!Here's what I think happened to you. You took 3 dates to build up to the first kiss, sick or not. When things go that way, women go from being excited about you to "let's just see where this goes." Without the excitement that kiss was worthless. Get it into your head...if you don't at least kiss a girl on the first date, you're setting yourself up for failure. Just thought it was strange how she deleted me. My final msg obviously got to her as I think she is used to getting her own way (lots of guys she has friendzoned) |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sat Feb 20, 2016 1:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Strange One |
The "I have enough friends" is kind of a standard thing for guys to say now. I endorse the agreeing without agreeing type of language: "I understand" "I get what you're saying" "That may be possible" "I can see that" None of it means anything. It just allows her to be in the moment without you overreacting. You never know how she'll feel later on. I have been in multiple situations where a girl would say that we should be friends but days or weeks later they'll tell me that they miss me. |
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| Author: | Karlb [ Sat Feb 20, 2016 3:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Strange One |
"i enjoy talking to you and think we get along great. lets try it, if not that cool' Never say shit like "If not that's OK/that's cool/etc. This subconsciously gives the woman the idea you've been in this situation before. Just assume she enjoys your company as well. Don't tell her you like being around her. That doesn't create attraction within a woman. 'i also think we get along great but not looking for anything serious. id love to hang as friends i enjoy spending time with u blah blah' She just wants to have fun. She doesn't want a clingy guy. No drama. Again, she wants to have good times. "i have enough friends. see you later' Yeah. She's done now. This is a pouty-like statement. And if you don't want anything to do with her because she just wants to be friends then there's no loss there. Quote: hey all 1st post here.
Had 3 dates with this girl. wasn't until 3rd time that I finally k-closed (i know i know, but i was sick). day3 went great and was day before vday. Next 2 days text her with some banter then try to arrange another meet. Then she starts with the short abrupt texts And says shes busy all week. So not wanting to waste my time i text her "i enjoy talking to you and think we get along great. lets try it, if not that cool'.. she responds 'i also think we get along great but not looking for anything serious. id love to hang as friends i enjoy spending time with u blah blah'.. I reply "i have enough friends. see you later' she obviously doesn't reply to that.. and 4 days later deletes me on all forms of social media. Where to go from here.. is it lost cause? |
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