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Author:  DMVA100 [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Kiss first date to prime for f-close
I've had mixed results with this.

Where do you draw the line with building tension with regards to kissing ON the first date vs at the end? I find it difficult to calibrate effectively based on her response. Sure going for the kiss during the first date conveys balls and aggression, but it can also show social retardation that you don't understand PDA and might make the girl look slutty. Sure she's probably dtf if you can kiss her in a bar on a date, but sometimes I've waited until I got her back to mine. Only once have I pulled her home when I went for the kiss after we left the venue. Seems that to get the f close you cannot wait to kiss her towards the end when you are supposed to be moving her.

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Is it better to just go for it everytime DURING the date and use it as a screening tool?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kiss first date to prime for f-close
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Author:  DMVA100 [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:40 pm ]
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Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kiss first date to prime for f-close
Over-thinking simple encounters.
Author:  DMVA100 [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 8:25 pm ]
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Over-thinking simple encounters.
Better than not paying attention. First impressions are everything so I'd appreciate any feedback. There's no room for second chances here.
Author:  detox75 [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kiss first date to prime for f-close
Kissing on a first date doesn't prime an f-close on the second. In fact I find the opposite to be more effective
Author:  R.C [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 3:04 pm ]
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If you can pull her back to yours you can kiss her before pulling regardless of where you're at.

However, pulling her will be significantly easier if you've kissed her first. I mean for fucks sake, it's called escalation for a reason. Obviously she's more comfortable with the possibility of getting physical if the two of you already did get physical to some degree.
Author:  DMVA100 [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 3:23 pm ]
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Kissing on a first date doesn't prime an f-close on the second. In fact I find the opposite to be more effective
Opposite? Not following
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jan 19, 2016 3:25 pm ]
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Over-thinking simple encounters.
Better than not paying attention. First impressions are everything so I'd appreciate any feedback. There's no room for second chances here.
The fact you're of the mindset there is no room for second chances - means you're already over invested.
Author:  detox75 [ Wed Jan 20, 2016 5:59 pm ]
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Kissing on a first date doesn't prime an f-close on the second. In fact I find the opposite to be more effective
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If you can't f-close close on the first date you have a better chance of that on the second date by keeping your value and mystery high. I find that by trying to kiss or get to touchy before I go for the f-close in a logistically advantageous environment that it lowers my chances of f-closing later.

If a woman knows she has you in the bag by you seeming over interested it is generally a detrimental to her interest level. I think beginners often make the mistake of pushing "kino" when they would be better served by playing it cool and building attraction.
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