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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Mon Jan 18, 2016 11:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Rejection-Proof Number Close Hey guys, so I have a line to ask for a girl's number that is virtually rejection proof. Let’s say you’re talking with her for 2-3 minutes, and she just finished talking about her work. Now you notice that you should probably get going, so you say to her: “Ok, well I should probably get going. But it was fun talking to you...you seem like a cool person. We should hang out sometimes. Let’s exchange numbers and we can stay in touch.” That’s it. Simple. Let’s analyse why this works so well. 1. So first you say that YOU have to go. When you say this, YOU are the one who is breaking the conversation, not her. This puts you in a power position. You also show that you are willing to go, and that you have something to do. 2. You say it was fun talking to you. Again, you’re leading because you are evaluating her, not the other way around. You’re not saying, “I hope you enjoyed talking to me”. You’re communicating “Hey, I think you are fun. I am the guy evaluating girls, and while most women are boring, you are actually kind of fun” 3. You say “We should hang out sometimes” Notice you didn’t ask her out. You didn’t ask anything of her. You are suggesting that because she is a fun cool person, you should hang out sometimes. It’s the same as if you meet a famous rock star, and after talking to him he says, “You are fun. We should hang out sometimes.” How would you feel if he'd said that that? My guess is you'd probably feel flattered. So when you say this, you are coming from a position of POWER, not from a position of need or begging. 4. Finally, you say, “Let’s exchange numbers and we can stay in touch”. This is the most powerful part. How do most guys ask for a girl’s number? “Can I get your number?” And what do most women say?  “Wellll....I don't feel really comfortable giving my number to guys I just met” Because what she's thinking is: “If I give him my number, is he going to call me all the time?” But you didn’t ask her to give you your number. You said it in a cool-social-guy kind of tone where it’s OK and social to exchange numbers. Of course, I’m not saying that this is the only way to get a girl’s number. You can also say, “You know what, I gotta go. But I would love to take you out for coffee sometime. If I asked you, would you go?” This can and will often work. But if you’re just starting out and you want to take it easy, this is a great way of getting her number with low-to-none risk of rejection. And also, if you feel approach anxiety of even starting a conversation with a girl, I invite anyone reading this to join my test group where I'm testing a new approach anxiety cure technique in my signature below. That's it. I would love if you guys try it and maybe post your success rate below, like "I talked with 5 girls, and 4 of them gave me their number after using this close" Good luck. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Jan 28, 2016 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Things like this work very well. I don't know that I'd call it "rejection proof" but this is a high probably of success phrasing it this way. The old, "May I get your number?" "Can I...?" "Would it be okay...?" stuff doesn't yield good results because you aren't displaying confidence in yourself and you are acting like you're a bother. Doing it this way is much better. Good Post. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Fri Jan 29, 2016 12:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
This works but I take a different approach. I give her a chance to reject me before getting her number because I only want her number if shes actually pretty interested in meeting up again. "Hey, you seem cool and are cute as fuck. Lets get together later this week for a drink." I gauge her response. If her response is anything other than enthusiasm then I dont even bother going for her number. I got to many things going on in my life to sit and spend time texting back in forth for a luke warm girl trying to get her to come out. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Fri Jan 29, 2016 10:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Along the lines of not 'asking' for the # I frame it that her giving me the number is me doing her a favor, tied in to "lets get a coffee/drink." The woman can tell if your time is valuable if you deliver your presentation in a 100% non arrogant fashion. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Jan 29, 2016 4:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
This isn't really 'rejection proof' in that it's more a way of asking her out without asking her out. I do agree though that it's a good way of approaching it - I use lines and methods like this a lot... One important detail I would note is that you need to convey SOME KIND of attraction to show your intent here. If you're simply asking for someone's number they may not know why (unless it's obvious). |
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| Author: | SirPounce [ Fri Feb 19, 2016 1:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
To OP I prefer Mystery's method, an open ended statement that provides an opportunity for her to give you an IOI. Example: "I need to get going. But first, what steps can we take to keep this conversation going?" This prevents you from seeming needy and conveys a dominant confidence but also a reasonable dash of invested interest from you the PUA. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Fri Feb 19, 2016 2:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Quote: To OP
You're waaaaaay overthinking this stuff.
I prefer Mystery's method, an open ended statement that provides an opportunity for her to give you an IOI. Example: "I need to get going. But first, what steps can we take to keep this conversation going?" This prevents you from seeming needy and conveys a dominant confidence but also a reasonable dash of invested interest from you the PUA. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Fri Feb 19, 2016 1:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Quote: Quote: To OP
You're waaaaaay overthinking this stuff.I prefer Mystery's method, an open ended statement that provides an opportunity for her to give you an IOI. Example: "I need to get going. But first, what steps can we take to keep this conversation going?" This prevents you from seeming needy and conveys a dominant confidence but also a reasonable dash of invested interest from you the PUA. |
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| Author: | SirPounce [ Tue Feb 23, 2016 10:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rejection-Proof Number Close (almost) |
Quote: Quote: Quote: To OP
You're waaaaaay overthinking this stuff.I prefer Mystery's method, an open ended statement that provides an opportunity for her to give you an IOI. Example: "I need to get going. But first, what steps can we take to keep this conversation going?" This prevents you from seeming needy and conveys a dominant confidence but also a reasonable dash of invested interest from you the PUA. |
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