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Author:  Ephialtes [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  second date with a HB10 and text game
Hey guys, first off, I'm new here.
I met an HB10 on tinder and arranged a date with her. Wasn't the best date but wasn't bad either, I think... We drank wine and went to watch a stand-up comedian she really likes. From my xp, HB10s run at the first sight of weakness, boredom or hesitation. So the fact that we kept the text convo flowing for the next few days tells me she enjoyed the date. She was always very responsive and asking questions. Due to our work schedules and holidays, I had a hard time setting a second date. I finally texted her after nye, thinking about arranging something, and after she asked where I went, I told her and asked her if she knew the place. After that, silence. It was just weird. She was super responsive and then nothing. I'ts been 3 days. Is this normal? I don't think I made a mistake... Certainly didn't over text or sound needy. The only mistake I can think of is writing text messages that were slightly longer than hers. Always with correct spelling (sometimes, as a strategy I will purposely insert a typo in there just to make it look like I'm in a hurry or that I don't care enough to fix it). Any thoughts? when is texting back, without her ever replying, acceptable? If so, what should the nature of that text be? Call maybe?
A caveat: I have Aspergers syndrome and I don't always know when people aren't enjoying themselves. So maybe she hated the first date. Do only reason why I think she did is because she was very responsive the following weeks.
Thanks
Author:  R.C [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 12:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
Quit the mental masturbation dude. Lol @ typos to appear in a rush.
If she hadn't enjoyed herself she would text you back.

Also you're putting her on a pedestal because she's hot.

Why don't you just text her something relevant instead of asking whether she knows some random place you attended a party at. Read my guide. Get her on another date and stop worrying about useless details.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Tue Jan 05, 2016 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
Quote:
Hey guys, first off, I'm new here.
I met an HB10 on tinder and arranged a date with her. Wasn't the best date but wasn't bad either, I think... We drank wine and went to watch a stand-up comedian she really likes. From my xp, HB10s run at the first sight of weakness, boredom or hesitation. So the fact that we kept the text convo flowing for the next few days tells me she enjoyed the date. She was always very responsive and asking questions. Due to our work schedules and holidays, I had a hard time setting a second date. I finally texted her after nye, thinking about arranging something, and after she asked where I went, I told her and asked her if she knew the place. After that, silence. It was just weird. She was super responsive and then nothing. I'ts been 3 days. Is this normal? I don't think I made a mistake... Certainly didn't over text or sound needy. The only mistake I can think of is writing text messages that were slightly longer than hers. Always with correct spelling (sometimes, as a strategy I will purposely insert a typo in there just to make it look like I'm in a hurry or that I don't care enough to fix it). Any thoughts? when is texting back, without her ever replying, acceptable? If so, what should the nature of that text be? Call maybe?
A caveat: I have Aspergers syndrome and I don't always know when people aren't enjoying themselves. So maybe she hated the first date. Do only reason why I think she did is because she was very responsive the following weeks.
Thanks
1. Start meeting other girls

2. Send another text. If still no reply, give her a call. Suggest another meet up and wait for her response. In the event that she doesn't answer the text or call, concentrate on meeting other girls. Be prepared to be ok with the fact that this girl may have moved on.
Author:  Ephialtes [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 6:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
So, i finally get this girl out on a second date. I decided to text her again after her long silence. To my surprise, she seemed genuinely happy i wrote her. After a couple texts we scheduled our second date that same weekend and it went really well, turns out we have a lot in common. By the end of the date we were making out but i couldnt f-close due to logistics not being arranged before hand. In any case, she was asking before i dropped her home if i " had a good time tonight?" . Which i took as a good sign. Heres where im having trouble... After two days ( in hindsight i probably should have waited longer) i texted her again and after brief chat arranged another date this last weekend. She flaked... She said she was sorry and that her friend needed her bla bla bla. So i responded "no worries, hope all is well :)". That was friday. Today (tuesday) i texted her again and no response. I guess my question is: is this completely normal? I cant figure out if this girl is into me and playing games or just going out on dates with me when shes bored and has nothing better to do. We have a good time and she seems to be enjoying herself, but these silences are confusing. Does this happen a lot? I wonder if she just wants to be chased. I worry about coming accross as needy. Thanks for help guys
Author:  R.C [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 7:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
Women don't play games with guys they want, lol. There's no such thing as "games". There's only lack of interest.

Games are when she's being purposely cheeky and it's blatantly obvious for the sole reason of having fun together.
Author:  thephenom [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
In your case she can either be testing you to see if you will still chase her / how long you will chase her, or like you said, she may simply just hit you up when she's bored.

What's for sure is that if she was genuinely genuinely interested then I doubt she would just completely ignore you like that, regardless of how enthusiastic she may seem in person. My general rule in situations like this is if a girl just stops responding, I'll give her 24 hours and then give her a follow-up text (see my signature link for examples). If she still doesn't respond to the follow-up after 24 hours then she gets nexted, straight up.

Whatever it is she's playing, alpha's don't play that.
Author:  JackZero [ Mon Feb 15, 2016 9:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: second date with a HB10 and text game
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In your case she can either be testing you to see if you will still chase her / how long you will chase her
*sigh*
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