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Author:  joshusaf [ Thu Dec 10, 2015 12:22 am ]
Post subject:  text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
So I met this girl like a year ago while she was working as a cashier and texted her a few times here and there. I never really made it a priority to hang out with her until she turned 21 (she did recently). I had some Penguine Game tickets and invited her via text earlier in the week for Saturday. She said she was in and then on Saturday I texted her to confirm and she said she was doing nursing shift for her school and was really sorry she couldnt come out. The next week i seen her at a resteraunt while i was with some friends I walked over to her table and she seem happy to see me and what not. So i texted her a few days later and asked when it was my turn to take her out, she said "when do you wanna" I responded with "when are you free" and she never responded. Later that night I was with my friend and he said he knew her and he texted her to come hang out with me and my friend "josh" and she came out for some drinks. She walked into the bar was excited to see me and basically talked with me for an while and took shots, she had to go and I texted her later to make sure she made it home ok and she did and text her I had a great time with her and she responded "me too". That was saturday night. I tried calling her today went to voicemail and I didnt leave a message. I dont know what to do, should I text her now, wait a few days?. Im 29 and a little older than her, and ive been told by other woman in the past that im indimidating (I drive a Caddillac, have a big house, money, etc.) Im not sure if this is the case or im overthinking it too much. any input will help me out, thanks for your time
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Dec 10, 2015 1:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
She is showing several signs of disinterest.

Chase other girls before this turns into a oneitus. You need to reveal your cards and let her know you're interested in her in a romantic sense, otherwise you will get confusing signs like you have been doing.

Ask her for a drink, one on one and if she says anything else other than a 'yes' - She ain't interested.
Author:  joshusaf [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
Ok, so I called her this past Friday night and she came out to the bar. It was an aewsome time, we took a bunch of shots got hammered and I had to leave to meet a friend like an hour later. I asked her then do you want to go to dinner this up coming Friday? She said yes very interestedly...

So Saturday morning I text her "good times last night!" and she responds " hahha pretty crazy"

So Monday morning I text her " Good luck on your finals this week, cant wait to hang out with you Friday : )" and get no response.

Tuesday around 10:30 Pm I text her "hows it going? are you home feel like talking on the phone?" and no response...

What should I do at this point? Should I plan on eating dinner with her Friday? Keep in mind shes 21 and was having an aewsome time Friday night with me, I think she is just nervous talking to me sometimes..

Thanks for your help this website is amazing!
Author:  R.C [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 9:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
She's not nervous dude, she's disinterested.

Also being intimidating is not your problem. Being average is. Good for you if you got your financials together, but that alone won't do much for you if you act like a chump and she's anything other than a gold digger.

Your texts are really non-entertaining. Of-course you get no response. She isn't interested and you're doing nothing to set yourself apart from the other 12 guys blowing up her phone.

Read my texting guide, it'll make things clearer.
Author:  joshusaf [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
Ok I read the info in your link and definitely learned a few things.

I also ran this situation by one of my female friends and she said "she probably just wants you to call her"

My question is what do I do at this point? When should I text /call her, if I do it today would it make me look needy ? (After no response 2 days in a row) or do I wait till Friday before were supposed to go out to dinner.

Thanks for your help, I've actually slept with over 30 woman and sometime in girls I really like I get hung up and too much in my head thinking about it and end up blowing it..
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 5:55 pm ]
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Thanks for your help, I've actually slept with over 30 woman and sometime in girls I really like I get hung up and too much in my head thinking about it and end up blowing it..
Don't be so outcome dependent
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Dec 16, 2015 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
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Ok I read the info in your link and definitely learned a few things.

I also ran this situation by one of my female friends and she said "she probably just wants you to call her"

My question is what do I do at this point? When should I text /call her, if I do it today would it make me look needy ? (After no response 2 days in a row) or do I wait till Friday before were supposed to go out to dinner.

Thanks for your help, I've actually slept with over 30 woman and sometime in girls I really like I get hung up and too much in my head thinking about it and end up blowing it..

If you were trying to hunt deer and needed advice on how to do so, would you ask the deer or the deer hunter? Never consult a woman on what you should do when it comes to seducing another woman. There are very few who are hip, but the odds are they're not going to know what they're talking about.

You've already been given solid advice. You need to accept, apply it, and stop asking questions.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Fri Dec 18, 2015 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
She doesn't want you to call her.

She's disinterested.
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Fri Dec 18, 2015 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
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Ok I read the info in your link and definitely learned a few things.

I also ran this situation by one of my female friends and she said "she probably just wants you to call her"

My question is what do I do at this point? When should I text /call her, if I do it today would it make me look needy ? (After no response 2 days in a row) or do I wait till Friday before were supposed to go out to dinner.

Thanks for your help, I've actually slept with over 30 woman and sometime in girls I really like I get hung up and too much in my head thinking about it and end up blowing it..
She isn't interested.

What you SHOULD have done in the beginning is make your sexual intent known, instead of being a nice, friendly orbiter.

When I say "make your intentions known" this does NOT mean you have to verbally tell her you're interested. This means KINO and PHYSICAL escalation. When she was at the bar you should have pulled her close, put your arm around her waist, whisper in her ear.

Instead you let her leave and like a chump texted her to "make sure she was all right". And then proceeded to invite her on another platonic date where you left without making a move.

She doesn't want you to call her. She isn't interested. Make OTHER plans, go about living your life, and meet new people.

In the (unlikely) event that she DOES say something about meeting up Friday, invite her to whatever you were going to do anyway.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Dec 18, 2015 4:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: text her now/ let it sit for a few more days?
Don't listen to women on how to pick up women. Lol.

She doesn't want you to call her, she's simply disinterested.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sat Dec 19, 2015 8:47 pm ]
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Don't listen to women on how to pick up women. Lol.
This. I'm starting to see people talk shit about the deer analogy and discredit it because "deers aren't humans" well ok then: You wouldn't ask a fucking goalkeeper how to score a goal just because they have goals scored against them. You'd ask a striker, the ones who actually score goals. ("Soccer")
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