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Author:  coldfire3k3 [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 7:13 am ]
Post subject:  She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
So a couple of days ago I cold approached this girl who was walking in a park going to work. My opener was direct. Told her i know this is random but i saw her, thought she looked nice so wanted to say hi. We had good rapport and things seemed to be going well, we have some similar interests etc. She had to go to the bus stop to go to work so after chatting for 10 mins we walked together to the bus stop. I told her I want to have coffee with her sometime and she said an emphatic yes with a big smile on her face. I think she would have come on an insta date with me if she had time.

We had good rapport but I didn't qualify her much since there wasn't enough time. Anyway I SPAM her straight away. She actually thanked me for coming up to her on the reply which was instant.

The next day I messaged her trying to build more comfort with the aim of qualifying her and she went cold
I think she's now blocked me from SPAM since I can't see her photo or last seen time.

I'm not sure what I did wrong. Here's the SPAM transcript till I got blocked.

04/10/2015, 14:37 - me: Hey (her name)! Nice talking to you. Thanks for not getting your gloves out. My krav maga is rusty so I don't think I could have defended myself enough to avoid serious injury.
04/10/2015, 14:41 - her: Hey Thomas or Tom? Thanks for starting a random conversation with me lol no you couldn't have, that's ok haha
04/10/2015, 14:44 - me: Either one is fine. I'm going to call you amir after amir khan.
04/10/2015, 14:45 - her: Ok, haha your not the first lol
05/10/2015, 11:08 - me: Hey hey amir! What's up? You're quite the contradiction. A boxer and a carer. I sense this is part of a war between the kind and evil sides of your personality??? :D So are you more good or bad? :P :P
05/10/2015, 12:58 - her: I'd say both balanced
05/10/2015, 13:03 - me: At least you are honest :D
05/10/2015, 13:26 - me: So what's up? Getting up to any mischief today?

Do you guys have any feedback? Should I wait a few days and call her? What should I say or do? What mistake did I make?
Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 7:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
Read my guide, it goes into detail, but what was the point of your last text? It's generic, boring, lacks emotional spark and passes the entire responsibility of sustaining a conversation onto her.
Author:  Style981 [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 9:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
Looks to me that the girl is "Manipulative type" and Ego Gratifier. "Thomas or Tom??" See how she disqualified you by acting that she doesnt even remember your name. If you texted her instantly after meeting her then I really doubt she'd forget your name do soon.

Another thing you are not even sure that she blocked you. May be she just set privacy on her profile pic and 'last seen'. Even if its exclusive for you its fine since she just met you. Dont expect her to trust you so soon.

Make sure if she's really blocked you or not. If Yes let her go. She isn't the kind of girl you'd be happy with anyway. If Not then text her again and try to set a meet up. Too much texting will lose any attraction you had created.
I dont see too much wrong with your texting except in case you weren't "Congruent" on your text with the personality that you showed her in face to face conversation.

Thats just my opinion. Listen to what other experienced PUAS have to say though.
Author:  R.C [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
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Looks to me that the girl is "Manipulative type" and Ego Gratifier. "Thomas or Tom??" See how she disqualified you by acting that she doesnt even remember your name. If you texted her instantly after meeting her then I really doubt she'd forget your name do soon.
Dude.. she was just asking him how he prefers being called.
Author:  coldfire3k3 [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 11:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
Thanks for the feedback guys. R.C. I went through your guide. It's very useful. I'll cut down on emojis in the future and asking what they are up to. That seems to be two mistakes I'm making.

I'm thinking of waiting a couple of days and calling her. I'll try to build some rapport if she answers. If she doesn't answer I'll text "have you been kidnapped?" And leave it till if and when she contacts me.

how's that sound?
Author:  Finished [ Tue Oct 06, 2015 9:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
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Looks to me that the girl is "Manipulative type" and Ego Gratifier. "Thomas or Tom??" See how she disqualified you by acting that she doesnt even remember your name. If you texted her instantly after meeting her then I really doubt she'd forget your name do soon.
Another example of another community dude creating problems when there aren't any. Get the fuck out and meet some girls before you offer advice!

On the texts...

Yeah the emoji's are probably a little gay. Use them sparingly and mostly only ;) and :)

The text at 11:08 is far too much. It comes off as pretty try hard.

For me you started to come off as far too eager and friendsy. Also stop saying "whats up" to girls.

It seems like she got the impression that you were a guy who doesn't get girls and blocked you.

Girls emotions change. She could of felt one way about you on Sunday, but by Monday morning with a fresh week ahead she's thinking differently. Have you not got better shit to do on a Monday morning anyway? A smaller text later on in the week late at night would of done better.

I'm 99% sure that a call is not going to help you out here, and following it up with a text will only make you seem needier.

If all of this is true, then the only way to ever get anywhere with this girl now is if she decides to unblock you or you ever see her in person again. You'd have to approach it correctly though with a lot of calibration, not get defensive and stay cool, flip the script, get her attracted and then do it right this time. This is a pretty hard thing to do though.

Seems like you should cut your losses and learn from your mistakes on the rare chance that the opportunity re-arises.
Author:  Style981 [ Wed Oct 07, 2015 7:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She seemed interested! Now blocked! What did I do wrong?
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Looks to me that the girl is "Manipulative type" and Ego Gratifier. "Thomas or Tom??" See how she disqualified you by acting that she doesnt even remember your name. If you texted her instantly after meeting her then I really doubt she'd forget your name do soon.
Another example of another community dude creating problems when there aren't any. Get the fuck out and meet some girls before you offer advice!
I never advice on something which I haven't experienced. And I never claimed to be a PUA.
What makes you Credible enough to advice btw?? Just because you belong to the "right community" ?? Fuck off dude. And don't ever talk to me or about me again if you are a racist.
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