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Author:  ChaseMTL [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP!
Alright here is a little background information! I'm a university student and I saw this HB9 exchange student at a meet and greet on the same floor as my marketing association! I approached her friends from the opposite side of a glass wall before I had a meeting and waved at them for a selfie. We took one and I had them all laughing and they invited me too come talk to them! So I did and ran some typical game using push/pull, casual flirting and invited them into our office during the event to meet my association. In the end the HB8 wanted too add me on Facebook, but I opened up her notes app instead and left my name and number with a ";)". She added me that day and we texted a bit; but here is where I need suggestions for the future. After a few days of texting; she agreed to a coffee date. Here are the texts from that date onwards.

PUA: I think you need to get out more haha
HB: Haha never I am lazy.
PUA: Or energetically challenged ;) If you run out of breath walking to school, text me. Il be sure to text you a picture of a bed for motivation.
HB: I love sleeping in. I am not a morning person. I guess I am very lazy!
HB: Hahaha
HB: Deal!

We meet up and go for coffee. We chose a sofa to sit on and we talk for an hour or so. I run kino on her, DHV stories, push/pull. She's constantly leaning on my shoulder while we flirt. So I tell her I'm going to charge her if she keeps trying to snuggle up on me.

HB: How much is it going to cost me.
PUA: Well for now only a kiss on the cheek.
HB: Deal.

After that we walked around the city for 4 more hours as she showed me some food places she's tried out as we walk towards the park. It eventually get's dark and she takes a few pictures of us while were on a bench and I use the "kiss on the cheek" to turn that into a full blown make out session. I walked her back to her apartment later in the evening where we eventually made out two more times on our way. No f close or text about the date that evening.

HERE IS WHERE IT WENT WRONG!

- Tuesday -

I see her at school the next day while I am promoting my association in the lobby and talking to a girl. She walks by with her friends and says hi to me, even though I am clearly busy. (So I kino her hand, when she passed me while still talking to the other girl).

I decided to not text her the day after the date and re-engage with her on Wednesday morning.

- Wednesday -

She mentioned she really liked blueberry bagels and muffins when we were out; so I use that and how lazy she is to make an opener.

PUA: Her blueberry girl! If you need motivation to survive day 2 of university or a reason to smile, just remember *Sent a picture of her bed*. Your bed isn't far away. (She lives 5 mins from the university).
HB: Hahaha so cute *Sends me a picture of her actual bed*. Got to go to school

THEN I RESPOND IN THE MOST BETA WAY POSSIBLE

Beta: Haha nice bed cover, I hope you did a better job of finding nemo ;)

Well six hours later no response. I realized how bad of a text it was afterwards, but her bed cover literally had lines with cartoon looking fish on it and a bed sheet that was cartoon bubbles. What should I do from this point on? Also a critique of my game or areas to work on would be appreciated.
Author:  CGAG [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 12:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
I'm not trying to give advice from a very experienced point of view but it looks really normal. She said she's going to school and finished the convo from her side. Stop killing yourself for the "foolish" comment, It might not be the cleverest but why do you think it would turn her off after you had a such a great time?

Just act cool inside your mind, the girl is yours and just behave as you would if you weren't feeling like you ruined it. It might be a cool down from her side or she is just busy, if you feel like re-engaging in a few hours or a day or two later don't be afraid to take the step, you're the man.

I hope I helped to turn your mind the optimist way - that's what gonna make every step you take a better step.
Author:  ChaseMTL [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 1:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
Quote:
I'm not trying to give advice from a very experienced point of view but it looks really normal. She said she's going to school and finished the convo from her side. Stop killing yourself for the "foolish" comment, It might not be the cleverest but why do you think it would turn her off after you had a such a great time?

Just act cool inside your mind, the girl is yours and just behave as you would if you weren't feeling like you ruined it. It might be a cool down from her side or she is just busy, if you feel like re-engaging in a few hours or a day or two later don't be afraid to take the step, you're the man.

I hope I helped to turn your mind the optimist way - that's what gonna make every step you take a better step.
I think your right! It could have been a joke she didn't get or forgot to answer my text or a bad text in general. Il just re-initiate the conversation tomorrow or if I see her!
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 1:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
Ridiculously long.

No one will read this. Create a shorter or TLDR version and you'll get some decent responses.
Author:  On A Rampage [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
The only beta move you'va made is worry about that one text :lol: Just let her get back to you and stop looking for a response from her. You'll be coming across as needy.

You should text her wayyyy less. Only text to set up dates. Look at my journey in the link in my sig where you can see a few of my personal examples. Text game won't get you laid, attraction is built when you two are actually together. You also won't be able to keep up the witty facade you're putting on when you're actually with her.

Set up the date and leave it at that. Seduce her when you see her. Fuck other girls in the mean time.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Sep 10, 2015 7:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
Quote:
Ridiculously long.

No one will read this. Create a shorter or TLDR version and you'll get some decent responses.
You stand corrected Cpt. Canada.

@OP:

Dude. Chill out.

How the fuck did it seep in your head that once a girl is attracted to you you can fuck it up entirely with one text?
Actually I take that back, because someone will surely have a story on that.
But this? This wasn't even that bad. The reason you're considering it so bad is because she didn't reply.
I see this happen a lot. Guys send a fun text. It's fun, she'll probably smile reading it. But it doesn't invite a reply. What was she supposed to say?

You didn't challenge her, you didn't ask anything, you didn't send an open ended question that requires an answer. You simply made a smart ass comment.

Stop panicking so much, you'll end up giving yourself a heart attack. Also I suggest you read my texting guide. There's good info all round.

Lastly, during the initial stages, don't text to talk fluff, unless you can't see her for an extended period of time. Otherwise text with a purpose, which is usually arranging dates.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Sat Sep 19, 2015 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awesome date, Kiss close. No answer after bad text. HELP
There was literally nothing wrong with your text. You are making it waay bigger than it really is.

Sometimes a girl will do something like that just to test you, to see how you'll respond. To see if you're
really that confident, or are you an insecure little bitch.

Here's what you can do:

1. Don't try to send her another text with a cute content. She knows she didn't reply just to
see how you'll respond, and if she can play with you. Sending her another one as if nothing
happened will make you seem insecure.

2. Challenge her on it directly. Send her a text with: "Hey I sent you a text and you didn't respond,
what's up that? "

Too many times guys try to "game" the girl, that it backfires when she games them...and they lose.

3. Be willing to walk away. In your head, you need to be willing to walk away from her, and show
to her that you are.

When a girl likes you, she will test you. She will do stuff like that just to see how you'll respond.

I had a girl pull something similar on me. I sent her a text "what's up" and she responded with "I'm
with a guy friend on a walk"

Friend on a walk? Really?

So I sent her a pic of me and a really hot girl I picked up on Saturday, with the text of "What do you think
of my friend?"

I killed the test, because she responded with "Well is your friend as intelligent as mine and blah blah..."

Get it?

She was testing me to see how I'll respond. I killed it by passing it correctly.

Pass the test my man.
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