Dont text every day. Its good for her to wonder what your up too and what you are doing.
I usually text and arrange a time to hang out and then dont text again until that day to confirm. Have more important stuff in your life to do.
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 11:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When to text first ? |
well we've been texting every day .. is that bad or good? Today she didn't text me soo I had to decide whether to text her or not . I didn't I broke the trend .Is the trend useless ? Do we have to text every day ? Is it ok to text first ? If it is that it's definitly not always .. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
Dont text every day. Its good for her to wonder what your up too and what you are doing. I usually text and arrange a time to hang out and then dont text again until that day to confirm. Have more important stuff in your life to do.
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
If I do end up texting her afterwards is it good to ask what she was doing ? |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Thu Aug 13, 2015 11:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
Quote: If I do end up texting her afterwards is it good to ask what she was doing ?
Read this: http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Aug 14, 2015 3:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
Is she your girlfriend or just a girl you've dated or want to date? If you're in a relationship the rules change: doesn't matter nearly as much who txts who or how often, as long as you're both on the same page with how much is enough and how much is maybe a little much. |
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| Author: | Basic fucking idiot [ Fri Aug 14, 2015 1:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
Based on the article you sent , if I want to build rapport asking her what she was doing is a no brainer . I want to date the girl , we aren't dating . This girl is rarely the tolerant type , If I tesxt her and she's busy the conversation becomes instantly very negative . So I choose to almost never text her first . For some reason though it's been a day and a half since she hasn't texted me . Do I stand my ground ? If she was busy and notices I haven't bothered with her the entire time is that a good thing ?
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Aug 14, 2015 3:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When to text first ? |
The women I talk to initiate 80% of the time. If not more, but I'm almost always receptive. I personally monitor my gut. If I feel like " I don't know what to respond with" or " I feel the slightest bit of uncertainty in what I'm about to reply with I simply just don't reply. They almost always send a double text an hour or so later. Or I'll will have figured out what to reply with by then. Its a tricky concept to comprehend, but I basically just monitor my gut and never initiate or reply unless theirs a clear certainty within it. This is something I've learned to do over time. Once you have a girl hooked, more often than not she will be doing the initiating. Women like to talk. Guys like to hang out. To me thats their thing, and so i let them do it. |
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