Here is an update on my situation. I called off the date. But here's the thing shortly after the chick sent me photos of her in a bathing suit asking which one should she choose. Then I told her and she was like ok cool it's for the pool party tomorrow. Total slap in the face! Here's some text dialog below. How should I go about handling this?
Girl: So I got a party at like 8 or 9 Fri night but I am good to hang if you still want to before that.
Me: What time did we agree on like 5ish right
Me: If you have plans it's alright we can just reschedule for another day
Girl: Idk if we agreed on a time lol. I could prob do 4 if you still want to if not that's fine.
Me: U ready for your test?
Girl: Yeah I feel ready I'm actually sick of studying for it :/
Me: Just saw your snaps... Hmmm hard choice but I'll loving blue looks good on your shape
Me: Which was the winner?
Girl: Lol thanks.. idk between blue and the turquoise.. the party is Tom night
Me: Turquoise looks better on your complexion
Me: In that case choose green and white and save Turquoise for me!
Girl: Haha I can wear it for you anyways... I thought you liked the blue one?
Girl: So we are not hanging for a bit tomorrow correct?
Me: I'm afraid your gonna have to wear them for me now that you've teased me with it.
Me: I like the blue and turquoise... The only thing missing is heels
Girl: Heels w a swim suit?? Sounds like a show... do tomorrow? Just wanna make sure
Me: Your gonna be my only contestant in my private swimsuit contest
Girl: That means I win... I'm down
Me: About tomorrow I had plans wanted to show you a good time after all that studying to ace your test. That's not gonna be enough time in my eyes But I respect if you have other plans.
Me: After all they say good things come to those who wait
Me: Now there is an alternative though only if you allow yourself to experience I fun night with me... We have a pool and jacuzzi. We can have our own pool party
Girl: Haha oh do they now? Okay if that's not enough time that's understadable. I'm worried about fining the amount of time then lol how long?
Girl: Lol when??
Me: There's no real time frame. Let's not put boundaries on our time. I want us to be able to enjoy ourselves and not worry about having other plans.
all I would want to treat you like I would want to be treated. So I would never plan to hang out with a girl with secondary plans elsewhere. I would want to take the time out to spend with her.
Girl: I get that and I appreciate it. I'm going hiking sat if I get back at a decent time would that work.. or I could maybe do tue next week
Me: Didn't you say your ex was a lot like that? Not making time for you and all
Girl: Yeah I did... think about those days if not we will figure something else out. I am off to bed got my twst in the am :/
Me: Your twist
Me: Lol Good luck on your test
Girl: Oh wow sorry. Thank you.
Girl: Oh or Sunday